"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gangster meets STYLE!

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Gangster meets & hangs out with STYLE!

Haven't had much time to post since last Sunday, but just thought I'd share with you guys a couple of things from my trip to Chicago last weekend for the DYD seminar. I was very bummed from the time I booked my flight, because I knew I would have to leave before it ended on Sunday evening, so I could catch my 8pm flight and be back home not too late, as I had to work on Monday morning.

I felt even worse that David Deangelo finished the seminar earlier than I thought, but started taping a program called "The 77 Laws Of Success with Women", which had tons of good info. I had to walk out during law #33, so I could take the shuttle. When I left I really wished I had booked a monday morning flight.

I'll have to settle for the DVD product when it comes out. The "Advanced Dating Techiniques" program was top notch quality, for the most part, due to the quality of the guest speakers. Will post a review if enough of you are interested. As it turned out, leaving the seminar to catch my plane ended up being a good thing, which I would not be able to buy from the David D. catalog. :D

Just as we were starting to board the plane, my friend (female) said to me "look, its Style!", and as I looked it was one Neil Strauss, who had spoken at the DYD seminar the previous night, His speech was very entertaining and informative, but more on that soon on my upcoming review of the re-taping of the "Advanced Dating Techniques" seminar.

He went in about 10 people before we did. As I stood waiting next to row 14 I looked forward and Style had already sat about 10 rows ahead or so, on the aisle seat. I looked at my boarding pass which read "Row 25 Aisle." Haha, I was to sit right next to one of the top PUA's in the world. I was to hang out with a master of pick up, he had no choice, he was stuck there with me next to him for at least 4 hours. The funniest thing, as I thought about it and realized at the moment, is that I felt a combination of being a little star struck and the anxiety of starting a conversation with a stranger. :nervous:

Now, Neil is a very small framed, not so tall guy. Physically, there is nothing intimidating about this guy. Less than 24 hours earlier he had signed our books, and had been very nice and engaging. It didn't take him long to start a conversation with a cute tall brunette who was sitting on the window seat of his row. Now I had to wait for a low in the action, since he speaks at the speed of a guy who's double parked and is long winded. Yes, it was my opportunity to address "The Most Powerful of The Jedis", as he's known in the community. But how was I gonna start without sounding like a groupie or stalker? Haha.

"Excuse me!!!!" He turned his head quickly and starred with a serious look as a kid who's about to get scolded. I paused, then said: "Do you think the rock star David Bowie is hot?" He reacted quickly and laughed as he hi-fived me. "You were at the seminar." We talked a little, and he got the girl sitting next to him, my friend and the girl on the window seat, all involved in conversation. :p

Everyone was engaged on the topic which was the a possible book equivalent of a female version of "The Game", men-women, etc. The topic of handwriting analysis came up, asked me if I was pretty good, he then took a torn piece of paper and told the girl to write something and handed it to me. He had me analyze the girl's handwriting, she seemed excited about a stranger about to tell her stuff about herself. She was engaged in an interesting conversation with two strangers she'd just met, and it was about her favorite topic, herself.

I told her she was a quick thinker/learner, investigative, self-conscious, sensitive to criticism, sexually frustrated, etc. She rated me a 9 in my analysis, then she responded, "That is so true. How did you learn that? What kind of job do you do?" Her response to her being sexually frustrated "It is all true, I haven't seen my boyfriend in 6 months, he's overseas. :up:

"You're pretty good" Style said. Then we talked about some of the characters in his book. It was very entertaining and humorous stuff on the PUAs. He was talking to the girls about relationships, dynamics, etc. Then I gave him a blank sheet of paper and had him write something. I got an 8.8 rating on Neil's analysis.

I talked with my friend for a little, and would ask Style about characters and things in the book, etc. After four hours of resting, talking, laughing, reading, and dealing with some drunk passenger behind us who had been kicking the back of the seats in our row, it was time to land in LA.

What a cool and classy guy Neil is. After we picked up our luggage, he came outside to say bye to us as we waited for our shuttle. While I didn't get to ask him a lot of things I would have put on a list had I known I would be in that situation, I did learn one main thing. I knew why he is one of the best at dealing with women.

He engages you, and everyone around (groups of people, sets, etc.) builds trust, and makes you feel like an old friend, very quick, and comes across as very legitimate. I wished him luck on his future projects and he asked what was my user name on this board. Haha. So Style, if you read this, it was a good experience, and Sarge On!!!! :up:
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wow, that's really cool that you had a chance to
hang out with Style.
i know of a handfull of people that are naturally very engaging-
so i can totally see someone acting like so and
creating that type of excitment and attraction...
in ANYONE and everyone around him.

is David D planning on re-releaseing the Advanced
Series? i have to say he's at his best in the original production-
he's got the whole comical "geeky" vibe thing going on.

-courteousy laughter please :crackup:
 

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Haha, as long as you didnt beat up the person who really had the seat next to Style ;). I'm really jelous man, sounds like you had a good time.
 

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
wow, that's really cool that you had a chance to
hang out with Style.
i know of a handfull of people that are naturally very engaging-
so i can totally see someone acting like so and
creating that type of excitment and attraction...
in ANYONE and everyone around him.

is David D planning on re-releaseing the Advanced
Series? i have to say he's at his best in the original production-
he's got the whole comical "geeky" vibe thing going on.

-courteousy laughter please :crackup:
Yes, the Advanced Series will be replaced with the 2nd edition to be released in early 2006. I agree with you, the original is his best product. The quality of the speakers on the re-tape was so good that I felt I got so much out of it and will be getting the new version.

I also told everyone who was thinking about not getting the original now, and instead waiting for the release of the new program, to buy it before it goes off the market, since the speakers on it were also very very good, and worth it. The only speakers that were in the new edition were, Ben (Orion), who was on only about 10 minutes, and Brent, who spoke maybe for about 45 minutes. The other speakers were totally different from the original program.
 

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Yes, the Advanced Series will be replaced with the 2nd edition to be released in early 2006. I agree with you, the original is his best product. The quality of the speakers on the re-tape was so good that I felt I got so much out of it and will be getting the new version.

I also told everyone who was thinking about not getting the original now, and instead waiting for the release of the new program, to buy it before it goes off the market, since the speakers on it were also very very good, and worth it. The only speakers that were in the new edition were, Ben (Orion), who was on only about 10 minutes, and Brent, who spoke maybe for about 45 minutes. The other speakers were totally different from the original program.
SWEEET!
i'll be sure to get me a copy of the 2nd edition.

compared to the Mastery program and newer ones
it's cool to see the contrast between how he first started and
how he is now.

he was alot more comical in his expressions and
all over the place with his body langauage instead of
the "Mr.Cool Guy" persona that he projects now.

if there was a movie on based on "the Game"
i think the artist MOBY would be perfect as the role of "Style"
http://www.mutelibtech.com/mute/moby/moby01.jpg
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GOL, how does Style build "trust"?
Sounds like his rapport game is top notch, He kept reinterating that "The Game" also guys like thundercat and them have said that Style's "Warm approach" game is top notch

just curious
 

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Solomon said:
GOL, how does Style build "trust"?
Sounds like his rapport game is top notch, He kept reinterating that "The Game" also guys like thundercat and them have said that Style's "Warm approach" game is top notch

just curious
$hit, didn't realize this thread was about 3 weeks old.

I remember him talking to that girl right away. I wasn't really listening to everything he was telling her, yet he was in a full conversation long before take off.

I will say he does it more with the "under the radar" approach to getting in. He was actually telling her that he'd been voted "The #1 pick up artist in the world". LoL.

By the time I started talking to him, he knew that her man was in the military overseas. He also seems to use a lot of social proof and his social value. It didn't hurt when I pulled my copy of the book in front of the girl.

Well, she was a lot more impressed with what I did with the handwriting, but it was fun.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
$hit, didn't realize this thread was about 3 weeks old.

I remember him talking to that girl right away. I wasn't really listening to everything he was telling her, yet he was in a full conversation long before take off.

I will say he does it more with the "under the radar" approach to getting in. He was actually telling her that he'd been voted "The #1 pick up artist in the world". LoL.

By the time I started talking to him, he knew that her man was in the military overseas. He also seems to use a lot of social proof and his social value. It didn't hurt when I pulled my copy of the book in front of the girl.
Well, she was a lot more impressed with what I did with the handwriting, but it was fun.
Eeh shoulda known, Use your socail status as DHV+go in direct yeah that sounds like Neil alright
The "going under the radar" approach works espeically if you dealing with conservative women
 
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