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Gaming women with children

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I come across a lot of women with children, especially on OLD. Usually I just keep them at arms length and move on but some of them are hot, and most of are quite forward and open to being hit on.

Does anyone have any tips? Apart from the obvious "don't go there" to bang them? Strictly sex only. These women have needs too and won't have time to harass and demand attention due to looking after little sprogs.

Is there a scenario where I can come out of this happy? Do I just go super forward and tell them I'm only after fun right off the bat?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Stay far away. You are just asking for trouble. I did this once... Years ago... She had a late teenager daughter. The MILF was 19 when she had her, so dated the nutcase for a few months @ 28. Easy to fvck, she offed the 2nd date. They will also do a lot in the bed. However, this will fall to the waist side after a couple of months and you will be taking their kids and the kids friends out with you once an awhile. They will also expect you to pay for them and their kids as well. I never did that part, but it will be pushed on to you. Then you have the issues with the father and a broken home for the rug rat.

Bro, stay far away.. The pvssy is not worth it.
 

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That sounds too deep, I'm talking rock up to the house when the kid is at grandmas, plough and leave in the morning then be done for a few weeks, repeat maybe 2-3 times then ghost?
 

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That sounds too deep, I'm talking rock up to the house when the kid is at grandmas, plough and leave in the morning then be done for a few weeks, repeat maybe 2-3 times then ghost?
Good luck with that. MILFs are psycho. They can call cops and say you violated her.. Or worse, violated the kid. It's happen to many men in NYC. It's not worth it.
 

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Good luck with that. MILFs are psycho. They can call cops and say you violated her.. Or worse, violated the kid. It's happen to many men in NYC. It's not worth it.
But any woman can say that - did you see what the fatty said in my "banged a fatty" thread? She insinuated I raped her... over £15.
 

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But any woman can say that - did you see what the fatty said in my "banged a fatty" thread? She insinuated I raped her... over £15.
It's worse with MILFs and kids. Don't do it. In order for therapy to work, you must first forgive yourself and set standards. More importantly, stick to them. First tubs of lard (not the healthy kind), now MILFs. Bro, chill out and take a deep breath.
 

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No single mom's.

No fatties.

No to married women.

No to underage girls.

Remember the above. And don't ever forget that there's lots of fresh almost trouble free pvssy out there. Find them murk.

You have the potential, make us proud, go slay some trouble free pvssies that your slit-eyed demon deserves.
 

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I recently watched this movie Downsizing. The main character Paul (portrayed by Matt Damon) dates this single mother. He suggests she brings her child on the next date so he can get to know the child. When she says that she would like to know him better he just dumps her cold on the spot and written her off and that was the end of that. It was an interesting movie to put in a scene like that. If you don't see her child by the second date and make it clear that's important, then you dump her since you don't want to waste your time unless there is a potential of being father to a ready-made family. What hollywood is spewing these days, lol!?!
 

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I recently watched this movie Downsizing. The main character Paul (portrayed by Matt Damon) dates this single mother. He suggests she brings her child on the next date so he can get to know the child. When she says that she would like to know him better he just dumps her cold on the spot and written her off and that was the end of that. It was an interesting movie to put in a scene like that. If you don't see her child by the second date and make it clear that's important, then you dump her since you don't want to waste your time unless there is a potential of being father to a ready-made family. What hollywood is spewing these days, lol!?!
Raising another man's child = cuckolded.

Only possible way I'd be dating or gaming a women with children is if she has put them up for adoption.
 

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I believe the old saying is "low hanging fruit".

It's never really worth it when they have kids.
My 2 exceptions were 1 chick that had her tubes tide (obvious reasons) and the other 1 was a party chick that made good $$. Semi-sugar momma to me.

It's fücked up cause now the broads without kids (decided not to have any) are messed up in the head. Or they have always have been, who knows?

At the end of the day you get to decide what you want to experience. BUT believe what others have posted, 99.9% of the time it's pretty much never worth it. If a single mommy says yeah put it in raw and pull out because I'm not on birth control. HA run!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I come across a lot of women with children, especially on OLD. Usually I just keep them at arms length and move on but some of them are hot, and most of are quite forward and open to being hit on.

Does anyone have any tips? Apart from the obvious "don't go there" to bang them? Strictly sex only. These women have needs too and won't have time to harass and demand attention due to looking after little sprogs.

Is there a scenario where I can come out of this happy? Do I just go super forward and tell them I'm only after fun right off the bat?
Don’t go there to bang them.
 

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In my opinion the younger the kids are, the worse it'll be for you.
However, the older the kids are the better it'll be for you.

17 or over = Safe
Under 17 = Dangerous

She will be more available to you once her children become more independent.
 

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Just pull out and you’ll be good.

I have sex with single moms just for fun. I don’t talk about their kid, and they never bring it up. They just want to bang and leave and obviously I’m fine with it.
 

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Smashed my share of milf box and the majority of my lays have been ONS and FWB's. Never had a problem with any of them, until LTR. I won't LTR if she's under 25'ish or so and I've been contemplating upping that range. Your odds of finding a woman without kids go down dramatically around that age. At least, where I'm from. But they've got to get theirs too. Allot, of these chicks are just getting out of relationships and not looking to get into another one anytime soon and just looking to get the bone. Do what you want to do bro. The one's that have been riding the same old d!ck for years are usually ripe for freaky sex and they have the experience of regular sex to make the experience, ime.
 

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Not against ****ing single moms. Just keep your frame and keep it as business only.
 

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Murk, there’s so many attractive options out there, why go for one with a kid(s)?

Even if she’s hot, getting that scheduled date with ease can be difficult and a headache; plus I found they’re all really overly sensitive and so involved with their kids that they’re not as fun as single kidless women.

There’s just so many options out there. Don’t bother.
 

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At the end of the day you get to decide what you want to experience. BUT believe what others have posted, 99.9% of the time it's pretty much never worth it. If a single mommy says yeah put it in raw and pull out because I'm not on birth control. HA run!
I've done that a few times, and one I'm going to see this weekend probably will let me go in raw, a single mommy. I fvcked her a year or so ago can't remember.
 

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The majority I've met just want either a ONS or a short-term sexual relationship with no commitments or expectations beyond you being a decent person and also fvcking their brains out. I agree with the other guy who said many of these women have had years of bad sex with the same guy so when you come along and rock their world, it makes a big impression and they will keep coming back for more.

When I returned to the dating scene after my divorce, I lost out on several opportunities for sex because I didn't move fast enough with the single moms. They wanted it on the first date, and if I didn't try to smash by the second date, they nexted me. I was just too inexperienced to read the signs then. Point is: Move fast with single moms. They don't have time, patience, or energy for the game.

I've not had any of them want me to meet their kids, or looking for a new daddy for their kids. I'm sure those types are out there but I think it's way less common than people think (based on my own experience).

A lot of the comments people have made about single moms relate to them putting the kids before you and not being available that often etc, but if you are just looking to have some good sex, none of those things are factors. Honestly it's ideal because you know she's busy all the time and can probably only see you once a week or once every other. If she's busy with kids and work, she likely won't get clingy because she has no time to (though I did have one get clingy but she only has her kids 50% of the time). Assuming you have other girls on rotation, this works out perfectly for you.
 

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I've had it play out a few different ways. I was five years with my Romanian girl and took on the daddy role. The main problem I found with ltr with a single mommie is that it's always them amd the kid and then you. And that's what broke us up every time.

So yeah I wouldn't recommend it as a long-term deal. And yeah they always go after your wallet.

Basically bang once or twice and then run.

Normally if they've arranged babysitting they are DTF and your only job is not to f*** it up.
 
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