Ken785 said:
What a load of cr@p. Im assuming you are trying to put minorities back in the mindset of it being impossible to pull a good looking white girl and that only white males can have them?? Nice try.
Ive known white women who werent initially attracted to or had the thought about dating outside of their race until they gave it a chance, now they're totally open to dating and learning new cultures totally diverse from their own.
Again, im agreed that they, just like any other race, might not initally be attracted because they have been pre-wired to only stick with what they know and thats their own culture, but one thing you have to know...
You hook them, reel them in, and show them what your about.
It's all about social class, which is linked with race. Asian girls have no problem drooling over and getting excited over the prospect of a blonde blue eyed white guy dating them but white girls see Asian guys as below them and never a viable option ... pretty much the same as other minorities.
Minority guys grow up in school thinking life is good and people aren't racist. Girls and guys talk to them as if they are equal (sometimes not, but usually racism is hidden). Then they hit their 20s, realise they've never actually dated any of these pretty white girls they've met in school, uni etc. and just see endless streams of white guys dating white and non-white girls. I'm not one for giving false hope out to minority guys who drool over blonde girls. It sadly just really isn't going to happen unless you are compensating hugely, with luck involved.
As for diversity of cultures and whatnot that you speak of, you sir, and those girls you mentioned, are part of this entire problem. If you stopped viewing people of different ethnicities living in the UK/US etc. as having different cultures and whatnot some of these stupid societal problems would never exist. They live perfectly similar lives to white people, they don't practise weird magical things or worship the devil or whatever. There is little to no differences in culture. Hardly anyone is religious, people live similar lives, they speak the same language and so on. But as long as there are white girls and various guys saying a girl needs to 'open up to other cultures' etc. the problem will always remain. She feels like she is going out of her identity and you agree with the notion. Basically skin colour decides everything then.
MM