Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gaming white chicks

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I'd like to discuss how to game white chicks. I don't think that there is enough information on here about that. Don't let them know you got the cracker fever. There are also different types of white chicks. Assuming you cant travel to europe, the best place to meet the fine blond white chicks (or any foreign chicks) is at a university, and/or a hair salon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're Asian, right? The only difference from the usual DJ stuff is that you have to be more direct and ballsy, because many of them haven't thought about dating Asian guys and don't think that we're interested.
 

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If your a nerdy asian type. Ditch that ****. Get buff. Get some style about your dress, get some man juice going. Some upfront confidence. Look for choosing signals and pick the ones that are interested..same as gaming any other chic really.
 

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It's obvious you are trying to be funny parodying the other thread. This whole site focuses on guys gaming primarily white girls, as that's the predominant girls in the US. Why are you so defensive about guys gaming Asian girls?
 
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Well this is where the game get's all messed up when you apply pua stuff to different races.

I am black. Can you see me running up in a black girls face hollering " who lies more david bowie or michael jackson?".

I have slept with over 100 white women. Many of them when I was teaching fitness classes. I dated models, instructors, ballerinas, and just hot females because I was the teacher.

I was someone they looked up too and admired.

Then I got tired of my classes energy getting all fugly because 5 or 6 angry women would be in it mean mugging each other competing for my attention.

Bad for business.

So I learned to hunt outside my business.

White women come in 3 basic types to me:

Good girls, Freaks and Ho's

And they come in 3 social arenas :

Rich or wealthy/ Middle class/ poor or lower incomed.

I hunted women with intelligence and money.

I liked having things paid for and taken care of.

Middle class and lower wealthing environment were what I liked.

I didn't go to to many ghetto clubs until the end of my game.

And here is where the pill of reality must set in before you can read any further.

YOU CANNOT MAGICALLY TALK A WHITE WOMAN INTO SLEEPING WITH A BLACK MAN IF SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

Sorry for all of the black men hiding on this site in the darkness.

If a white women isn't interested in damaging her social standing and getting looks from her friends, peers and family for messing with black men then she will not mess with you.

PERIOD!

Fortunately there are enough that do think about getting the long black pole so don't worry.

Unfortunately I have found that it's about 5% in the hoity toity clubs or environments.

Remember they are there looking for white men to sucker into the marriage dance so that they can have his stupid butt work all day long while she gets her nails done. Get to travel to Greece...I have rich clients.

I also have a friend with 2 mill in her bank account...but she comes from a middle class brazilian background.

So you need to develop the skills to be able to tell which of those 5% will mess with you.

For asian guys I believe it's even less. In some areas it runs higher for blacks

Latin men do much better if they look white.

Women look for men with features that resemble their own. Biological fact. That is why they marry someone who kinda looks like them.

East Indian men fair better than asian men because "their features are closer to ours-interviewed rich attorney female.

I know a lot of socalled PUA's are gonna object but these are how females see it. Get over it.

When you find one that doesn't care what her family, friends, peers, co-workers, priest and white men in general who give them dirty looks think then you have found a woman who is above the bull-shyt in America.

Now you fellas know that I am talking about America not europe where it is much more relaxed.

When a white woman wants to mess with a black man it is as I have been told by almost all of the white women that I have boned, that white men no longer turn them on.

They like black men's physicalness in bed. White guys don't get in a uproar it is just what women have said. They like our passion. Or have heard about us and want to see if it's true.

Dyck size is not the issue or thing also.

Yeah believe it or not.

It is that black men tend to be more passionate the women say afterwards or if I wasn't their first then they say at sometime or another.

Not that white guys can't be passionate too. But think of metal heads...think of gamer dudes...think of nerdy types...

They also like that we are more vocal on average. I am not talking about black nerds who hide out on forums like these too ashamed of their own skin color.

I am talking about real brutha's.

So how do you find em?

They will give you eye contact. That is the first and foremost indicator of a white woman who is interested in a black man.

Eye freakin contact fellas.

So for you black men who are ho chasin white women down the streets who have no interest in fyucking up their lives...Yes I seem harsh.

You have to think about what if that woman get's pregnant. What then.

She thinks about that.

She will have a black child. And too my mixed bruthas on here...yes you are black sorry to break it to you...society calls you black by the one drop rule.

Just try to marry a racist daughter and you will be told just how black you are.

When a white woman gets pregnant she knows that almost NO white man is gonna want her EVER again.

Look at how you may of looked at white women with black kids or your parents.

That goes through these womens minds which is why so many of them once they get turned out yell "we don't wanna go back." No it's because they are too embarrassed to even try to go back knowing how it is.

I hope this helps your discussion.

It may be harsh but I believe in taking the red pill and waking up to reality. I don't believe in Yugio or fairy dust.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ketostix said:
It's obvious you are trying to be funny parodying the other thread. This whole site focuses on guys gaming primarily white girls, as that's the predominant girls in the US. Why are you so defensive about guys gaming Asian girls?

Ah the parody thread. Yah you know some asian get real defensive about that. Just like some white guys get defensive white girls dating black guys. Or black women getting mad over black guys dating outside the race. It's fear. Fear they don't measure up to the other race. Fear is not being a real man (or DJ).

**** it. Attraction is not a choice. You are not the keeper of your races women...women will date who they choose. Realise that women choose. There will always be asian women choosing asian men, so don't get defensive about it. Just go for the ones choosing you and screw the rest,who cares?
 

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i'm asian too, and it ticks me off to a certain extent

not that fact that white guys go for asians

dont give a stuff

its just that fact that the white women, generally dont

and all the while, asian women have no problems with white guys

its a little racist

anyway

the reason Ken is a bit more sore on the subject is that he doesn't have his own hot asian girl and he blames everybody else but himself for that
 

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No No...was trying to be funny at first...now this thread was just getting to be real...Thanks for the tips. Im not a defensive Asian dude...not anymore since iv'e evolved into a DJ. People should be free to date whoever.

I just really have a thing for White women...though im sure many would agree with me that a White AMERICANIZED women or any other race in AMERICA for that matter...who carries herself well ,caring and loving and is not an attention wh0re is hard to find.
 

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Women are generally passive and go for no man. You have to go for them.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Ah the parody thread. Yah you know some asian get real defensive about that. Just like some white guys get defensive white girls dating black guys. Or black women getting mad over black guys dating outside the race. It's fear. Fear they don't measure up to the other race. Fear is not being a real man (or DJ).

**** it. Attraction is not a choice. You are not the keeper of your races women...women will date who they choose. Realise that women choose. There will always be asian women choosing asian men, so don't get defensive about it. Just go for the ones choosing you and screw the rest,who cares?

Right but but I think the focus here and most guys experience is of primarily white American girls. So I think it's valid to ask for tips for say a white guy, or asian guy for that matter, for PU Asian or black girls. Basically PU that's not typical to them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ken785 said:
No No...was trying to be funny at first...now this thread was just getting to be real...Thanks for the tips. Im not a defensive Asian dude...not anymore since iv'e evolved into a DJ. People should be free to date whoever.

I just really have a thing for White women...though im sure many would agree with me that a White AMERICANIZED women or any other race in AMERICA for that matter...who carries herself well ,caring and loving and is not an attention wh0re is hard to find.


ok ok, imitation is the sincerist form of flattery. At first I thought you were being a troll so I wasn't going to post here.

My thoughts are that you should look for a nice farm/village girl, there are "americanized" girls and nice village girls in every country.
 

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Ken785 said:
I just really have a thing for White women...
Fair enough and some guys have a thing for Asian girls and Latin girls or maybe both.


though im sure many would agree with me that a White AMERICANIZED women or any other race in AMERICA for that matter...who carries herself well ,caring and loving and is not an attention wh0re is hard to find.
Yeah and that's why some guys even if they prefer white women would also go for other women that have those qualities.
 

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ok ok, imitation is the sincerist form of flattery. At first I thought you were being a troll so I wasn't going to post here.

My thoughts are that you should look for a nice farm/village girl, there are "americanized" girls and nice village girls in every country.
Village girls? You joke with me??? :p
 
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Ok now that I got some attention:

types of females:

Many brutha's mess with low class white women and or fat ho's. Fat women get no attention from white men on average but as they are growing up they notice that brutha's give them attention.

This is because the majority of us like our women thick: 140 -160lbs with most of it in the booty.

You can find these low class females up in black predominate clubs.

When you step to em you gotta be hard. They are not looking for Earkle types of nerd blacks.

You have to act black in otherwords.

Yes I know there is at least one smarty type of brutha on here who will object to this and even come up with a example of how they caught ms suzie q by acting (white) or talking in a non urban mannor.

That is where the middle class and upper class women come in.

You need to speak well but still have that hard ghetto edge to you.

The other complaint that white women have against their own is that they are not masculine enough on average so show yours.

When you step to higher class women be a real man. A blackman first though.

It is easy to get them all involved in the plight of the American Black Male and covert em to the cause brutha's. Basically make a total got danm fool out of em.

Been there and used that race card like a visa card on vacation.

I am still assuming this thread is for black men and not asian men.

Cause you guys have a different problem or issues of concern and I cannot answer those...except get rid of that nerdy crap and quit using the race issue.

Too many asian males use that family junk and asian thing way too much. I see tough asian guys dating some of the hottest white women in my town all the time.


They do it because they don't care what race they are and do not drive honda's or act like super asians.

They don't dress like nerds or all neat and tidy.

I saw one guy driving a muscle car-nova old school style from my days.

As for that I have no advice for ya's.

But blackmen ...you gotta think like a hunter. Figure out where your prey goes.

If it's upper class hunt in the night clubs where they have bands. Go to art galleries or other upper class events. Plays and such.

Ho's go to ghetto shyt. When the local hip hop station put something on show up.

As for dressing:

upper class dress like you got some. Upper class white women love a blackman who is on the move in life. Shyt they love any male who is about something.

Lowerclass you need to dress good but not all suited and booted.

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If the above doesn't work try this:

http://img514.imageshack.us/img514/1295/browncoatblueshirtandpayr4.jpg

I am teaching at borders in Sacramento how to meet girls classes. Yeah lil ole me. I am borders and channel 31 in sacramento's dating expert:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaSRpgc-ezo

Cause I have been all up in da game!
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
Ok now that I got some attention:

types of females:

Many brutha's mess with low class white women and or fat ho's. Fat women get no attention from white men on average but as they are growing up they notice that brutha's give them attention.

This is because the majority of us like our women thick: 140 -160lbs with most of it in the booty.

You can find these low class females up in black predominate clubs.

When you step to em you gotta be hard. They are not looking for Earkle types of nerd blacks.

You have to act black in otherwords.

Yes I know there is at least one smarty type of brutha on here who will object to this and even come up with a example of how they caught ms suzie q by acting (white) or talking in a non urban mannor.

That is where the middle class and upper class women come in.

You need to speak well but still have that hard ghetto edge to you.

The other complaint that white women have against their own is that they are not masculine enough on average so show yours.

When you step to higher class women be a real man. A blackman first though.

It is easy to get them all involved in the plight of the American Black Male and covert em to the cause brutha's. Basically make a total got danm fool out of em.

Been there and used that race card like a visa card on vacation.

I am still assuming this thread is for black men and not asian men.

Cause you guys have a different problem or issues of concern and I cannot answer those...except get rid of that nerdy crap and quit using the race issue.

Too many asian males use that family junk and asian thing way too much. I see tough asian guys dating some of the hottest white women in my town all the time.


They do it because they don't care what race they are and do not drive honda's or act like super asians.

They don't dress like nerds or all neat and tidy.

I saw one guy driving a muscle car-nova old school style from my days.

As for that I have no advice for ya's.

But blackmen ...you gotta think like a hunter. Figure out where your prey goes.

If it's upper class hunt in the night clubs where they have bands. Go to art galleries or other upper class events. Plays and such.

Ho's go to ghetto shyt. When the local hip hop station put something on show up.

As for dressing:

upper class dress like you got some. Upper class white women love a blackman who is on the move in life. Shyt they love any male who is about something.

Lowerclass you need to dress good but not all suited and booted.

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If the above doesn't work try this:

http://img514.imageshack.us/img514/1295/browncoatblueshirtandpayr4.jpg

I am teaching at borders in Sacramento how to meet girls classes. Yeah lil ole me. I am borders and channel 31 in sacramento's dating expert:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaSRpgc-ezo

Cause I have been all up in da game!
Player Supreme?...is that YOU????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I sure hope this doesn't turn into a thread where my asian brutha's start whinning about how white women don't like em.


I see asian men as I have said with super hot babes in my town all the time.

Get in where you can fit in is my motto.
 

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Yeah I am a big mofo.
Big fan of your podcasts man!!! You really speak all the things taught in the Bible of this site but you do it in a way that really gets one to "man up" by kicking them in the as$ to get them to wake up.

You don't sugarcoat sh!t and you tell it like it is...i respect that man.
 
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Ken785 said:
Big fan of your podcasts man!!! You really speak all the things taught in the Bible of this site but you do it in a way that really gets one to "man up" by kicking them in the as$ to get them to wake up, you don't sugarcoat sh!t and you tell it like a is...i respect that man.
Thanks brutha Ken!
 

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Thanks brutha Ken!
Hopefully you stick around here man...ill put you in my favorites list...that is if they have one here and i figure out how to do that. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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