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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gaming taller chicks

Lexington

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I'm not very tall (5'8). But I am attracted to a lot of chicks who are a little taller than I am. I'm not after 6 footers or anything like that, but there are a lot of girls that are 5'9-5'10 that I find attractive. I know it's not impossible. I knew a guy who was 5'4 who was bangin' a 5'9 model. I've seen a few dudes dating/married to girls an inch or two taller than them.

Are there any particular tips to keep in mind? Should one joke about the difference in height, or should one totally disregard it? Should a guy be a little more aggressive to compensate for the height differential? Is there a good strategy to present oneself as a prize and not her little brother?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nivre

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Feel tall. Don't really have to be tall to feel it. Like how you see some tall people seem really short, it works the same way. Either way, i believe you should disregard your difference in height when it comes to gaming chicks. However, when she arrives at this topic, develop some nonchalance and make it such that you appear as though you do not feel low or weak just because you are shorter, and to keep yourself calm, to prevent yourself from over-reacting. ( insecured )

btw, there was a tip about imperfections. Might help.
 

brewbaron

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I wouldn't even bring the height difference up. truth is I think a lot of taller girls feels insecure about their height. my gf is 5'9" and I know its a sensitive topic for her. if you approach the situation as if there isn't any height difference between you and her I doubt it will even come up.
 

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i have to agree with brewbaron, in my experience most taller chicks are definitely insecure about their height...

i too am only 5'8" and at one time i wished i was taller but nowadays my presence makes up for any height that i am lacking

that being said...

i would make the height a non-issue by somehow mentioning to a new tall girl that you're talking to that you only date tall women and that 2 of the last 3 women you've dated were models....

not only does this make you sound selective but this kind of establishes the idea that other attractive tall women find you attractive and that you're used to dealing with them, satisfying them, etc.

i do this sort of thing when i talk to girls outside of my race, i'll tell a spanish girl that i usually only date spanish girls which renders the difference in race a non-issue

hope this helps bro
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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