Gaming several chicks at the same party

[STR8UP]

I've never been good with juggling multiple women. Whether it's complacency, laziness, guilt.....whatever, I have never been good at keeping several women on the line at any given time.

My buddy's g/f recently contacted me about having a surprise party for her man at my place. At first it was supposed to be a small thing, meet up before all of us head downtown and hit a club.

Well, it turns out that it's gonna end up being a "little" bigger than expected (maybe 30-40 people, mostly women!), and it looks like we will be partying all night at my place instead of going out.

My buddy's girl is the one who always hooks me up with her friends, the group I am in really good with. Turns out that there are going to be several women there who are interested in me.

The last party I had like this was absolute insanity. I had no idea what would happen when you put several women who are interested in you in the same room and feed them copious amounts of alcohol. More fireworks than the 4th of July! Last time I was pretty much stuck with the chick I was dating at the time which SUCKED. This time around it's a different story, I'm 100% unattached.

Any pointers for working several chicks at the same party?

Play the drunk card and whisper sweet nothings into each one's ear and see which one bites? Take turns trying to make out with each one of them in the corner? lol

I suppose the goal would be to have at least one in the sack by the end of the night. Don't want relationships with any of them so no need to be on any kind of special behavior. No holding back this time!

 

[Mindtrust]

lol your life sounds interesting to say the least.. Full of drama!

If it was me in this situation..

I would go for the hottest women i knew was interested..

Give her the attention, play with the other women's eyes and strike light conversation with them when you get a chance.. Keep them on there toes.

Mindtrust

 

[STR8UP]

lol your life sounds interesting to say the least.. Full of drama!

Like I alluded to in another post, there's good drama and bad drama. The good drama keeps life spicy. The bad drama will stress you out and send you to an early grave! Unfortunately sometimes you have to take a little good with the bad, but I don't tolerate much of the negative stuff. It's easy to extract yourself from most situations when you are single.

 

[Mindtrust]

It's easy to extract yourself from most situations when you are single.

I can relate to that, iv been single for a year now

 

[Vulpine]

I've been single my whole life.

STR8UP, game NONE of them. Be busy as the host and neutral with all of them. Your higher IL chicks will eventually "hover" around you and keep close proximity - basically become apparent.

Then, briefly and discreetly isolate them, get their number, maybe a little 'session', then on to the next. Careful, however, the order of operations is pretty crucial. Isolate the one you are interested in most first, then from there in reverse order 4, 3, 2, and then back to 1 again. It won't work as perfect as that, maybe 3, 1, 2, 4; you know how parties tend to get random as hell. The aim is to get the jealosy thing going with the first one early, then end the night with her. If she can't stand the competition, at least you'll end with the next best option and some numbers... or a threesome.

I've ran the same scenario countless times as host of ****tail parties, and when the booze starts flowing, a pack of women seem to form an "aura" around you. When everyone is good and sauced, that's when you start with the isolations because the others are less likely to notice - or remember to use the 'women network' to figure out what's going on.

Another method is to gather numbers completely innocently.
"Hey, give me your phone number."
"Why?"
"Since I'm busy hosting, I tend to miss a lot of the party, and a lot of the dramas. It's fun to hear what happened later from others, good and bad."

Then *poof*... disappear to the next chick and run the exact same thing. Meanwhile waiting for the night to progress/escalate to proceed with the main event.

I'm jealous, STR8UP. I miss my parties. I'd have 3-5 chicks standing in the kitchen in their underwear. Complete strangers getting naked and being comfortable with it in front of other stangers.

If you haven't used this setup before, grab on to it and wear it out:

"I have to mingle."
*in response to jealousy display/anger at you leaving*
"Dude, I'm the host. I can't just go disappearing off into the bedroom with everyone. *turning to leave* You have to share. *walking away* Don't worry, I'll try to be back later."

I say it often and loud enough for other women to overhear (once or twice in an evening) so they know THEY aren't special, either. Like, all the special attention they just got from me... left with me.

Muahahahah!
Mix it up - I'm an azzhole sometimes and half yell it pizzed off/irritated. Other times I'm sincere and apologetic all up in their earhole. And yet other times I'm matter-of-factual.

If you keep drilling the "have to share" idea into their heads all night, by the end, they won't be shocked by having to share your bed with you and another chick.

 

[synergy1]

Like I alluded to in another post, there's good drama and bad drama. The good drama keeps life spicy. The bad drama will stress you out and send you to an early grave! Unfortunately sometimes you have to take a little good with the bad, but I don't tolerate much of the negative stuff. It's easy to extract yourself from most situations when you are single.

I've done this at several parties, and it doesn't hurt to game more than one. The Jaelousy thing can kick in, but just be mindful when you can close on the target you want. There is a point of no return w/ some girls, but you should be okay if you keep your whits about you.
good luck

 

[STR8UP]

Then, briefly and discreetly isolate them, get their number, maybe a little 'session', then on to the next.

I think I have a pretty accurate tally now, here's the breakdown:

Girl #1- Met her about a month ago at a club through friends, 26yrs old. Our group went out again a couple of weeks ago. Should have tried to fukk her that night, but ended up making out for awhile, she left late and gave me her #. This is really my primary target, but this one kinda flaked on me last weekend, so I'm keeping that in mind. She's gonna have to work for it, otherwise....NEXT!

Girl #2- 24 yr old friend of a female friend, met her a couple of months ago when we were all at a club. SUPER touchy feely all night, holding hands, etc. Haven't seen her since then, but a couple of weeks ago our mutual friend emailed me and said #1 wants us all to hang out again. This is the one who has a b/f in a well known rock band. I think this one is just looking to fukk. Maybe I should make her priority #1 since she doesn't get out often??? Have to think about this one....

Girl #3- Known her for awhile, messed around with her a few times but that's all she wants to do so she's WAAAAYYY on the back burner. 26 I think.

Girl #4 & #5- These two are best friends, known #4 for years, attention wh0re type, recently made out with her a few times and stayed at her place once, but made a promise to myself LONG ago that I wasn't going to ever pursue her. She gets jealous when I'm around other women, including girl #5, who is her best friend. #5 has gotten touchy feely with me a couple of times when we were out. The goal with this one is likely to get the digits and set something up for a later time. #4 is 36 and #5 is 33.

Girl #6- 24 yrs old, not sure if she's gonna be there but if she is it's a 100% sure thing in the bag piece of ass. Has a b/f, but was all over me the night I met girl #1 and told me that her relationship was "just out of convenience" and that she wanted to "take me off the player market" lol

Swinger chick is also supposed to be there, hopefully she brings some wild friends again and they can set the tone and get the other girls naked! No game plan with this one, it kinda has to fall where it may. Still gotta feel out the situation.

It always turns out that the girls I know try to set me up with new friends at these parties too, so who knows what other opportunities might come along.

Careful, however, the order of operations is pretty crucial. Isolate the one you are interested in most first, then from there in reverse order 4, 3, 2, and then back to 1 again.

Sounds like solid advice, exactly what I was looking for!

Not to over analyze, but the more I think about it girl #2 might need to be my main target, since she seems to have high interest, isn't available very often, and already has a b/f (let him deal with the relationship, I just want a piece of ass!)

The aim is to get the jealosy thing going with the first one early, then end the night with her. If she can't stand the competition, at least you'll end with the next best option and some numbers... or a threesome.

I'm thinking #2 is the main target, #1 is the backup to her. #3 and #4 are simply pivots, #5 get the number and call her later. The rest....whatever happens, happens.

I've ran the same scenario countless times as host of ****tail parties, and when the booze starts flowing, a pack of women seem to form an "aura" around you. When everyone is good and sauced, that's when you start with the isolations because the others are less likely to notice - or remember to use the 'women network' to figure out what's going on.

I swear, the last party could have been a case study on the mating habits of upper middle class men in their 30's.....it was a fukking CIRCUS! One of the chicks that was there was SUPER aggressive. She likes my biz partner but she brought a friend and the two of them kept jumping (literally) in front of the other chicks when they would try to dance with us. She and her friend pissed off pretty much every other chick there, it was hilarious!

I'm jealous, STR8UP. I miss my parties. I'd have 3-5 chicks standing in the kitchen in their underwear. Complete strangers getting naked and being comfortable with it in front of other stangers.

I'm moving out of my townhouse so this is gonna be the last really big bash I will be hosting Gotta go out in style!

If you keep drilling the "have to share" idea into their heads all night, by the end, they won't be shocked by having to share your bed with you and another chick.

I know at least a couple of these chicks like women too....hmmmmmm.....

 

[realsmoothie]

WTF? Where are you finding all these single late-20somethings? Where I live every girl past 26 has been in a relationship for five years.

Of course... that means there's lots of 22 year olds, which is just fine by me!

 

[STR8UP]

WTF? Where are you finding all these single late-20somethings? Where I live every girl past 26 has been in a relationship for five years.

Of course... that means there's lots of 22 year olds, which is just fine by me!

I live in an urban area so there are always a lot of single people around. And the ones who AREN'T single don't seem to have much respect for their relationships anyway.

 

[STR8UP]

C0ckblocked in the 9th inning

Crazy, crazy, CRAZY a$$ party. My place was trashed, police showed up, the whole nine.

Ended up designating girl #1 (26 yr old I met a month or two ago through friends) the primary, she called me earlier in the night and I could tell right off that she was game.

Girl # 2 (24 yr old, rock star girlfriend) showed up, but she cut her hair too damn short, just wasn't doing it for me last night so I talked to her for awhile but thats about it. She saw me get into the jacuzzi with #1 and I think she left after that.

Girl #3 (26 yr old back burner chick) was there, more on her later.

Girl #5 (32 or 33 yr old, #4's best friend) showed up early, had to go to another party, then her and her friend came back at about 3 am. The plan with this one was to get her digits, no prob there, turns out she already had asked #4 for my # a couple of weeks ago but lost her phone since Several times before she left she asked when we were going to hang out. Gonna call her up when I get some time.

It's getting late and people are leaving, we are standing outside and girl #5 pulls up, talked to her and friend for awhile.

I had already arranged for #1 to stay the night. She was outside with me and the rest of the crew. #3 was there as well and was talking about leaving. Had a pouty look on her face, I assume because she saw me making out with #1 earlier and knew #1 was staying the night.

So what does #3 do? Decides to stay. In my bed. With me and #1!.

"GREAT!", you say, "tag 'em both". That's all good and fine, but another friend of mine (guy) ended up sleeping on the floor in my room. Wouldn't have let this all go down, but my place was absolutely trashed from the party and there was no other place for them to sleep, and I wasn't gonna make them drive if they didn't feel like they were able.

The swinger couple was there as well, the wife got naked in the jacuzzi again, and was trying to get #1 to go home with them, hehe.

Overall I feel like I played it pretty good considering I'm not very good at this sort of thing.

- Got #5's digits, mission accomplished. She's a little older, one that I might be able to date should I be so inclined. I wasn't planning on going on for the kill with this one.

- Ejected on #2, probably try to get together with her sometime in the near future, she's a blast to hang out with but I really didn't care for the new look.

- Didn't fukk #1, but in the morning she was asking why we didn't (duh! the room was full of other people!) and she seems to like me a lot so I should have another shot. Texted me later in the day saying we should hang out again soon, should be in the bag.

- #3....well.....she called later on and apologized for messing up my game with #1. If you ask me it was a total c0ckblock, she was ready to go home and jumped in my bed instead. I told her she owes me for that one

Didn't get any pu$$y, but I set myself up for some on the future, and I guess there are worse things than sleeping with girls snuggled up on both sides of you

 

[DJDamage]

The swinger couple was there as well, the wife got naked in the jacuzzi again, and was trying to get #1 to go home with them, hehe.

What a wh0re lol make sure to really scrub and wash that tub after the party.