"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It may be hard sometimes but it is worth it because it increases your confidence and your abilities.:kick:
Wish you good luck!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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) The look on her face was fukin funny ). She said yes of course. I flirted w/ her 4 a little while but we were both working at the time so it died down. At the work place I have a very close female friend and I somehow think that the older girl got jealous of us always talking and laughing together.she seemed interested at first but u kno how girls are...oh well screw her and the rest of em i'm just gonna work on myself period i'm tired of flakes & low interest women wasting my time
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just had a date with somebody 4 years older (HB9, IMO) than me and it went great and we're meeting again.. thats the plan anyway. If anything they may be a little insecure about being older.Avn_0903 said:Im 20 n she's 23. She has a 19 year-old brother so I'm thinking she might somehow identify me w/ her brother. Before I started thinking abt gaming her, I have been interacting w/ her like the way a younger person must act toward an older one so it might have made an impression on her that I'm not the lover type. Anyway enough abt the insecure ****, today I asked her to go to lunch w/ me sometimes n she was kinda surprised
She has a 30 year old brother. I think as long as you don't behave like her 19 year old brother you won't remind her of him i.e. be a man.