"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gaming infront Of MOM! (OH NO)

trojanman88

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I was up in walmart with my mom, and I saw booku chicks. But I was there to get a task done and I got what I wanted. After that we looked for my moms ****, every girl was checkin me out (i'm kinda good looking lol). It was mostly white girls, not really my style (i just don't like looking like a sell out[my last girlfriend was white], white girls are just as sexy though, i hate the stigma of dating a white girl when your a black guy, so I usually don't go for any girl out of the minority gene pool) but anyways I see this fine as mexican broad checkin me out. So I thought to myself is it really possible to game infront of mom and get a good pull(withought looking like a scrub)? So i let that chance pass me by, but at the end of the (after christmas) shopping spree I see this fine mexican cashier. SO I was like **** it. (And this woman was older than me atleast my moms age btw) So she asks me a flirty question.
me: Yeah you look like you had a hard day. (bad, insult so I had to correct that and calibrate it)
me: Not that you look like ....blah blah blah (trying to calibrate the IOD)(my moms laughing)
her: yeah I just got here
me: so do you like working here? ( stuttered after glancing at my mom and attraction faded, mom made me nervous)
her: yeah when i'm working here i'm kinda in the zone
me: are you in the zone now?
her: yeah
me: that means I could get a discount then...(smiling)
her: no no no (laughing)

I was about to move into a future projection, when she told me to slide my card in and sign the reciept. She would have totally been mine if she wouldn't have done this lol but hey I never had that kinda pressure before kuz my moms there :cheer: cheering me on lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Hey man, atleast ur mom supports u gaming girls during the day....my mom didn't want me to(more like felt embarrased)unless its at a socially acceptable place.lol. Course i break that rule.Sorry mom.lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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