"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gaming in a small town... OMFG

powpow

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So where I come from, there are about 22 million people in the city.

I just moved to a place of about 50,000

everyone knows everyone, and is all up in everyones business.

there is a uni and a community college, and I see the same people CONSTANTLY

on top of that, there is a limited supply of hot chicks. where I come from, there is basically endless.

apparently I already have a reputation of being a "playboy". that didnt take long. girls have their slut shields up and the ASD full alert.

where I come from, you can date like 6 or 7 girls at a time and it wont come out. here... well... it came out rather quickly, and I only had 3 on the line.

so, someone who has experience gaming in a small town, fill me on some hints. please. I think I might have to fly into oahu to do some proper gaming/nanpa.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I grew up in a town of 15,000 people. Small town dating sucks. The biggest problem with living in small town is the HB's are few and far between and you keep seeing the same towny women you went to high school with at the bar over and over every time you go out. When I moved to a city of 250,000 people the HB's were a dime a dozen.
 

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hahaha whats up man! good to see someone from back when I was still crazy developing.

gave up fighting when I moved back to the states. :-/

I supppose I can just work with the reputation and see what happens, maybe attract the slutty ones that like to play the game, and probably catch aids or something
 

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If you have a place to train, just get a gi and grapple for fun and to stay in shape. Women can't tell the difference between jiu-jitsu and UFC, anyway. If you're in a very small clique of people, it won't be hard to be known as 'that fighter guy.' All the women will want you as their own personal project.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well then imagine that I live in a town with only 5500 people, though you can count the villiages around because they often go here to bars, but that's just maybe another 7-8000 people.

With every girl that I had something with I had someone we both knew, always at least one person.
 

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I'm in a town of 8000 but I spread my plates around.
One is where I live, one is two hours north and one is an hour south.
 
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