"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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gaming girls who are all over someone

shagnscoob

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so i was at a party again tonight, and there was this stunning girl, and shes a year older than me (i was youngest there, she was next youngest) and i had heard about her beforehand from one of my coworkers, whos a model -.-

anyway, at the party, shes drunk, my model coworker friend is pretty sober, and she was all over him, like, i dont know what he was doing but he was just sitting there talking to her, and she was getting all close to him and stuff.

i think at this point she was beyond my reach, but in general, how does one go about DJing a girl that is all over another guy? or one that has shown interest in another guy as it is....
 

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You don't waste your time. Move on, and find someone else... if she was drunk, and like this, from personal experience, she is an attention wh*re. (e.g. He's making no moves on her, and she's getting closer and closer to him. As soon as he DOES make a move, she'll run like the wind.) If this isn't the case, generally, she has a deep interest, and as long as he knows how to game her right, he will win, and she will not lose interest. Basically, wait till he screws up, and move in for the kill. I personally wouldn't bother, though.
 

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Like he said,

Evaluate the logistics of a situation. Run game on chicks who are receptive to it.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by Skweints
You don't waste your time. Move on, and find someone else... if she was drunk, and like this, from personal experience, she is an attention wh*re. (e.g. He's making no moves on her, and she's getting closer and closer to him. As soon as he DOES make a move, she'll run like the wind.) If this isn't the case, generally, she has a deep interest, and as long as he knows how to game her right, he will win, and she will not lose interest. Basically, wait till he screws up, and move in for the kill. I personally wouldn't bother, though.
well your right she probably was an attention though, even though she was throwing major signals.


you guys dont think theres anyway to like, outdo another guy? in general when theres competition around how does your game change?
 

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He's goodlooking,he had social proof(you) and he was running his yap.

Of course she was gonna melt in his presence.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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