"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gaming girls who are all over someone

shagnscoob

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so i was at a party again tonight, and there was this stunning girl, and shes a year older than me (i was youngest there, she was next youngest) and i had heard about her beforehand from one of my coworkers, whos a model -.-

anyway, at the party, shes drunk, my model coworker friend is pretty sober, and she was all over him, like, i dont know what he was doing but he was just sitting there talking to her, and she was getting all close to him and stuff.

i think at this point she was beyond my reach, but in general, how does one go about DJing a girl that is all over another guy? or one that has shown interest in another guy as it is....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skweints

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You don't waste your time. Move on, and find someone else... if she was drunk, and like this, from personal experience, she is an attention wh*re. (e.g. He's making no moves on her, and she's getting closer and closer to him. As soon as he DOES make a move, she'll run like the wind.) If this isn't the case, generally, she has a deep interest, and as long as he knows how to game her right, he will win, and she will not lose interest. Basically, wait till he screws up, and move in for the kill. I personally wouldn't bother, though.
 

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Like he said,

Evaluate the logistics of a situation. Run game on chicks who are receptive to it.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by Skweints
You don't waste your time. Move on, and find someone else... if she was drunk, and like this, from personal experience, she is an attention wh*re. (e.g. He's making no moves on her, and she's getting closer and closer to him. As soon as he DOES make a move, she'll run like the wind.) If this isn't the case, generally, she has a deep interest, and as long as he knows how to game her right, he will win, and she will not lose interest. Basically, wait till he screws up, and move in for the kill. I personally wouldn't bother, though.
well your right she probably was an attention though, even though she was throwing major signals.


you guys dont think theres anyway to like, outdo another guy? in general when theres competition around how does your game change?
 

Tha Realnezz

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He's goodlooking,he had social proof(you) and he was running his yap.

Of course she was gonna melt in his presence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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