"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gaming girls in college while getting a masters

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im just curious about anyone who has gone to get their masters and there experiences in gaming college girls at the same time.
im going back to school in about 3 months to get my masters full time. Im 24 and graduated when i was 22. Im going to the same school i got my undergrad degree in cause they are the only school in the state that offers the degree. when i was in undergrad i got on some girls then during my senior year i had 2 gf's (not at the same time) the second one lasted almost 2 years and i was living with her up at school then we broke up and moved to the city. so i havent been there since. its obviously a little more difficult to get girls in the city cause its mostly people youve never seen before. girls in college are alot easier cause its like hey ive seen u here and there or you know so and so.

Has anyone gone to get their masters and at the same time have a lot of success with women in college? with undergrads? grads?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jigga23 said:
im just curious about anyone who has gone to get their masters and there experiences in gaming college girls at the same time.
im going back to school in about 3 months to get my masters full time. Im 24 and graduated when i was 22. Im going to the same school i got my undergrad degree in cause they are the only school in the state that offers the degree. when i was in undergrad i got on some girls then during my senior year i had 2 gf's (not at the same time) the second one lasted almost 2 years and i was living with her up at school then we broke up and moved to the city. so i havent been there since. its obviously a little more difficult to get girls in the city cause its mostly people youve never seen before. girls in college are alot easier cause its like hey ive seen u here and there or you know so and so.

Has anyone gone to get their masters and at the same time have a lot of success with women in college? with undergrads? grads?


My brother met his now wife in graduate school about 3 years ago.

I'm in graduate school (really its professional school) and find myself so busy i literally don't meet any women except ones in my same field (and what sucks is that they are either weird, ugly, married, or engaged). I would just try to make sure you have friends outside of your graduate program collegues so that you can meet other women.
 

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It depends on your major really. Even though its become a bit of an even distribution between the sexes for various programs, there still may be varying ages and experience between programs. You can run the gamut from young women who just completed their undergrad to older adults going back to school for their 20 year career change.

Depending on your course load and your outside activities (work) will determine how much time you'll have to sarge. It's about schedules and juggling. It's doable but you need to be vigilant in adhering to a tight schedule. Procrastination will be your downfall if allowed.
 

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well hopefully ill get enough student loands so i dont have to work cause in undergrad i never worked and was always swamped with work. that should make things a little easier
 

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I wouldn't worry about being able to get enough loans, there's more than enough lending institutions out there willing to lend students money, especially grad and post grad students. Just make sure to get a good interest rate with lenient terms.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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