"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gaming girls for meetups months later...

gravityeyelids

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This is something i've been curious about. I have a couple girls i'm talking to, mostly off tinder, who go to my college. However, I'm home for the summer.

This one girl, we'll call her Priscilla. I saw her on tinder and immediately recognized her as the girl that works cashier at a grocery store up at my school. She's super cute, and always eyefvcked me when i was checking out. So i started teasing her about eyefvcking me and pumping up her interest.

She gave her number without much hesitation, im going to hit her up via text pretty soon and flirt a bit and then prob back off for a while..

What's your strategy for keeping these girls warm enough for like 2 months before potentially meeting up with them at school? It seems kinda random to just wait until school starts and then hit them up....especially if you have barely even (or never) seen them in person. My idea would be to flirt with them periodically via text to keep them interested, and then make plans once school starts?

I know there will be different opinions, because half the senior guys hear say that texting kills interest, while others view it as a helpful tool than can result in easy lays. I consider myself pretty solid in terms of text game if that helps at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jurry

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I'm all for texting (nothing is that absolute) but if you're not going to meet them before summers over i dont see anything good coming from maintaining contact on a regular basis during that time. What would you say that wouldnt come off like "i have no other girls to talk to so im trying to keep this floating until we're closer"?

Fvcking tinder is where its at huh? Pissed i dont have facebook anymore cuz id give it a shot. I dont really get it though isnt it like ppl you are friends with, seems awkward as sh!t lol..
 

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Gravity, there is a chick that lives about 3hrs from me that I want to fvck next time I am in her town. What I do with her is send a funny or interesting picture every 3-4 weeks, usually of somewhere I am or something interesting I am doing. Sometimes that results in a brief text convo, other times it doesn't. But I do feel it has kept her "warm" so to speak.
 
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