"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Gaming Fat Big Black Women

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Hey, I'm not into HB2s and 3s or 1s.. But there was this HB2 FBW, fat black woman, at the post office.. Two of her hotter coworker females were into me, and I had to deal with this FBW.. I don't know what happen, maybe she read me, as I stood there... Oh I have to go to you, sux!!!!!

She was playa hating the whole way through.. Being b!tchy and stuff... They suppose to stamp PERCEL POST or PRIORITY MAIL on paper, not tape that will get erase quickly.. She didn't give a damn, and was generally rude towards me alone..

Nothing I did could regail her.. She was totally into hating me..

How do you game those fat women?



I had to deal today with two ugs, I tried to be cool, but they hated me.. I don't usually get this much hate from women..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You went into the post office and got done what you needed to get done. I don't see what the problem is. Are you ever going to see this woman again?
 

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My bad.. I should have said I'm doing a lot of stuff with post office, and I go there daily.. Sometime 2 to 5 times a day.. I see all kinds of Representatives.. It would be wise to be super fly with them..

Plus I hate when people hate me that much..

I never know what they could do to mess me up.. I rather be friendly with them, keep them under my wing, than leave it to a freak chance, if you know what I mean.
 

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Take her some donuts or something for her and her coworkers. She would probably eat them all anyway, and it might make her stop c*ckblocking you.
 

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Next time you go in, why don't you wait until a different worker is available and get your work done through them.

Otherwise, don't give her a reason to be *****y. Keep your cool, calm, collected self when dealing with her. Most people, including her hot co-workers, will see her for what she really is, and they will see you for what you really are.

You catch my drift? Avoid playing fire with fire with someone like her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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some people are just unpleasant. but are you trying to GAME her? or just trying to get along w/ her and stop the hating

if you're just trying to get along with her, feed her ego. a key part of social skills is realizing you have the ability to make other people feel better about themselves. that's what wins them over. ignore how much of a ***** she is and be pleasant. she'll reciprocate little by little

if you tryign to game her, take her to McDonanlds
 

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joey2times said:
Yeah, walk up to the desk and say "I got cookies, I got fudge".....
:crackup: And then on the news we see a big angry black woman tear a car apart with her bare hands looking for the sweets.
 

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They will like you as they get to know you.

Why the hell would you go to the PO more than once, wolfie... you should be consolidating trips. And if business is that good, they should be coming to YOU to pick up your packages.

My PO ppl LOOOOOOOVE me. They get all in my business! Its so bad that if I've had a bad week personally, I go to a different PO, because MY own PO knows me so well that they can tell when I'm upset and they all henpick over me...
 

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I'm sorry, but if you can't handle hating friends, you're gonna be in a world of sh!t as you try to progress.

First, try to befriend the blocker.

Second, try to isolate.

Either way, never go head-to-head with a girl's female blocker friend on the approach; you will not prevail. Trust me.

P.S. How does her race come into play here that you felt the need to reiterate the fact?
 

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"Big fat black chicks" DO tend to come with a "big personality", lol. Ask any one of them. Maybe he was just trying to be descriptive in that sense. BUT his thread will probably be locked now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Wolf said:
Plus I hate when people hate me that much..
people will hate you no matter what... you have to accept that fact.

Thats probably one of the biggest lessons I have learned from game. Its essential to be a real man to accept any hatred toward you... True confident people aren't bothered by someone disagreeing with him.



if no ones hates you, then 9 times out of 10 it means you have an unhealthy personality... It means you have no identity... When you get an Identity, turn Alpha and live your own life, people will hate on you...

Take any high identity individual in the country. High Value Identities... Like George Bush, Donald Trump, Paris Hilton etc. These are people that do what they want, They are successful but look at all the hatred towards them? lots of hating, and they still get on with their lives and achieve what they want.

a FBW gives you attitude and doesnt agree with you for whatever reason, so what.... it means you are actually a person! Congratulations, you are human enough to be hated.
 

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Yeah there's really nothing you can do other than be cordial and polite...or just cordial if you can't fake the polite part.
 

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BUT his thread will probably be locked now.
Doubtful, no moderaters here actually do any moderating. That would just be asinine.
 

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Rex Man said:
P.S. How does her race come into play here that you felt the need to reiterate the fact?

Yo, I love black people, especially thin black women, something about their legs. I love tupac and too $hort. If you black and have a sister, and she's beautiful, I love your sister.

Black women love me back too, most of them. Especially young black women. I'm only saying black here because I have a special thing towards black girls, I simply love them.. They are sexy!

Big fat black women have a special personality associated with them. Some of them at least. They are agressive. While other big fat women are tained, less dangerous, polite, afraid to show the beast inside them..



And IGGI, you're a female, you get special loving. That's why.



In this PO situation being hated is sort of dangerous. I am relying on them to deliver a package to my customer. They could do things to mess me up. It's dangerous. Any other situation I'd take my package and come up to some other rep to do my business.
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
Yo, I love black people, especially thin black women, something about their legs. I love tupac and too $hort. .

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand here's another idiot who thinks all African Americans = gangstas.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Silly. Tupac was an entertainer, and too $hort is a pick up artist.. Besides for being off target and taking my thread into the wrong direction you misspelled gangsters.
 

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Omg, I the title of this thread alone made me laugh. LOL
 

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I guess I'll be the first to point out that there really is no such thing as a HB2 or 3. a Hot Babe is by definition at least 6/10. The word you're looking for is WARPIG!
 

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Hilarious.

I've noticed that young fat women are the nicest people ever. They believe that if their personalities shine through, that people will like them for who they are, and not hate them for what they look like.

Old fat women, around 30-40, finally realize that no matter how nice you are, nobody wants a fatty. So they feel its them vs the skinny world, and thus have an enormous chip on their shoulder.

How old was this bovine post office worker?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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