aix237 said:
good stuff kontroller. anyways when i see her i guess ill just ignore her till she comes up and then Ill just continue to neg her and mess with her and do a little kino right? i forgot to mention this chick was calling me babe throughout the whole trip "aww babe good job or babe youll be alright" wtf haha
Yeah all that you said is good.
As for the kino though she could stop you and playfully ask what you intend for her and you ie are you two just friends or are you two going to be more or whatever.
Respond to this by looking in her eyes and say we're two people who will have quite a bit of fun together I'm sure sending the unspoken sexual message to her that you want to fvck her brains out.
Your sexual intentions with her has to go unspoken remember otherwise she no longer views herself as the innocent victim of sexual desire and no longer the pure virginal innocent child.
As for her little compliments towards you...
Seriously pay them no mind and do not let them get to you.
Yes they are compliments and compliments in general are good but when AW use them it is to break you down and make you feel good only to give you a false sense of security that your relationship with her is secure and she is totally into you and you are this awesome guy that she says you are.
In reality she never actually believes what she is saying or she only believes it in that moment.
Her compliments on her part are more or less an unconscious automated responses by her disorder to get you under her control.
You see they break most people down with compliments because say you are with one for 6 or 9 months or longer. Almost all that time she is lavishing you with compliments, each and every day, almost every moment with you she is pouring on the charm and the compliments and at first you think oh thats nice of her to say and are flattered but she just continues at it until eventually you start to believe she means all of these little compliments and everything she says about you is true, you come to depend on her for these compliments and once she sees that you have become dependent on her she can begin the carrot and stick principle of deeper manipulation ie give you attention in measured doses for doing certain things for her such as taking off work and spending your whole day with her, lending her far too much money which you will probably never see again, giving her your whole attention and neglecting your family and friends damaging those relationships, turning things around and making you give her all the compliments in order so that she compliments you once or twice here and there and once she has gotten her full validation fix in her mind and you are worth nothing more in her mind to vampire emotions from she will cut you off brutally and coldly leaving you shocked and damaged for her new victim that she began cheating on you with one or two months prior and you didn't even know it. Cluster B always have a new potential lined up waiting in the wings to replace you.
In short you must learn to disregard these compliments and regard them as merely empty words she is vomiting up at you in order to dominate and control you.
She doesn't mean a word of it.
Train yourself to block these false compliments out and while involved with one of these women make sure your family and friendship relations stay strong and you have a place of even minded individuals to go to in order to keep your sense of self and your sanity intact. Your establishing boundaries and getting angry at the AW when she whines for your time will make her even hotter for you so don't fear lashing out at her somewhat if she makes some kind of threat of leaving you if you don't give her your full time and want to hang out with friends or relatives instead. Don't call her names if you must lash out either simply use neutral words in anger such as "Give me a break! I need my own time to myself" etc. Stuff like that.
Always act like you can leave her at anytime with no regrets or remorse because she can and will do the same to you if you don't.
