"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Gaming Asian Chicks.

DonGorgon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2007
Messages
4,679
Reaction score
102
Location
Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
Rex Man said:
Well if you're a caucasian US male, you're in the money. Asian women love white guys. Hell even their cartoons (anime) usually look white. Blond hair blu eyes and all. Hotther!
Umm all minority women love white males (some secretly some openly)... FACT! And we all know why..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Rex Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2005
Messages
613
Reaction score
2
Location
Midwest
Meh, I believe white males have a slight edge in the U.S. but It varies greatly by region and race. I'm not sure what reason you're alluding to but just flip through cable channels and you'll see that the vast majority of leading men are white. Videogames and other media are the same way. Also, I believe the two groups with the highest single rates in the States is black women and asian men. The absence of black men and asian women could implicate black men and asian women being more willing to date a different race(s).
 

DonGorgon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2007
Messages
4,679
Reaction score
102
Location
Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
Rex Man said:
Meh, I believe white males have a slight edge in the U.S. but It varies greatly by region and race. I'm not sure what reason you're alluding to but just flip through cable channels and you'll see that the vast majority of leading men are white. Videogames and other media are the same way. Also, I believe the two groups with the highest single rates in the States is black women and asian men. The absence of black men and asian women could implicate black men and asian women being more willing to date a different race(s).
White males are the financial alpha males of the earth at present so minority women whos males are below these white males will tend to be carnally instinctively attracted to the white males over their own men who on average earn less.. BUT in 2008 this does not matter as much cause most women will be with multiple men for multiple reasons...
 

drak_ool

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2007
Messages
764
Reaction score
20
Rook said:
"Gaming" Asian Chicks? Are you serious? They are still girls! There is no difference between how you act to them and say... "Gaming" White Chicks.
that just goes to show you ve never gamed a certain kind of Asian chicks, namely chicks who are just off the boat (not the westernized version).

Sure, you can say that gaming westernized asians is the same as with white chicks. But as far as Asians who just moved in, for study or other reasons, it s a whole lot easier. I ve had my fair share of East Asians and Southeast Asians ( i have yellow fever).

From my experience, it s way harder to use your "verbal" game as they will not understand even the most basic wordplays (same for other non-english speakers i guess), and explaining it to them just takes the fun out of it. However, no matter what you do or say they won't shut you down, or make fun of ya. they are way more respectful than american girls and a lot less *****y.

I think the reason why i have such success with Asian girls is because I am a blue-eyed, light haired, 6'1 white guy. Not to be racist, but most asian girls who have never been with a white guy are curious, so you have good chances.

one last piece of advice: straight-off-the-boat Asian girls make the best girlfriends by far! The ones i was with, i told them that i wasn't being exclusive and they never complained once. Never had a fight, never had to hear them bytch. I could go on and on, but they have most of the qualities you should be looking for in a girl.
 

SharinganUser

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
1,776
Reaction score
50
I basically just want to date more HB8+ asian women. I am not very confident that I can do that, so that is one of the reason's I made this thread.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Cry For Love

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2007
Messages
294
Reaction score
6
escaleraroyal said:
Anyone can talk about Korean chicks?
With koreans, it is necessary to take extreme care. It is generally not said out loud but a lot of Koreans are quite the xenophobes, a concerning tendency in their homeland especially. Unfortunately it is especially fierce toward bruthas and latinos(and less so toward whites) so we gotta be very careful around them
 

j0n24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2009
Messages
231
Reaction score
13
I wish I could date more yellow but where I live its very hard finding them and the fact that I dont feel like moving.

I noticed though on 2 dates I went out with 2 different asians I took them to a chinese restraunt. I live in states.

I busted them about going to the restraunt and they ate it up....they taught me how to eat with chopsticks and how "Fries," Are NOT real asian food haha.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Let's Get Real

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2011
Messages
41
Reaction score
2
Location
Los Angeles
This is a legit thread. Different ethnicities DO go for different things.

Growing up near L.A. I've been able to see how women of different ethnicities respond to different things.

If it's true that most women want to date a guy similar to their father, then this makes sense. Asian women aren't as attracted to muscles and tattoos as latina women. Latina women aren't as attracted to intelligence and degrees as much as asian women. This is very stereotypical but from my experience almost every asian woman I have dated opened up noticeably when I told her that I studied finance in college. The latina women I dated didn't give a crap. Latinas were turned on when I told them I did MMA. And from my tattoos. The asians liked that I did MMA but didn't open up any more when they found out I had tattoos. Whites and asians liked when I told them I did commercial banking and latinas did not move. Latinas have responded more to me as I get bigger and get tatts. They don't care that I skateboard but whites and asians open up more when they find that out.
I've dated around 100 latina women, 30 white women, and 10 asians.
 

SharinganUser

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
1,776
Reaction score
50
Cry For Love said:
With koreans, it is necessary to take extreme care. It is generally not said out loud but a lot of Koreans are quite the xenophobes, a concerning tendency in their homeland especially. Unfortunately it is especially fierce toward bruthas and latinos(and less so toward whites) so we gotta be very careful around them
Can you explain what you mean by this? I dated a Korean girl before and the main reason that I bedded her was because I argued with her and practically accused her of being a lesibian.
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Fvcked a tall Japanese woman in her early 30s last night (obvious kids - stretch marks). It was dark at the club, but back to her place I saw how ugly she was. She also had bruises on her arm and leg (abusive boyfriend? I think so..a cut on her hand bandaided I'd already seen when I first saw her). Guys this was probably the 2nd or 3rd worst lay I've ever had. She was thin, yes, but the look and shape of her pvssy and A-hole (slopping downward) was just unattractive. I tried not to hurt her feelings but I had to cut our sex together short. She was from LA, and you know how loose a lot of LA chicks are. She spoke like a Hispanic, it was bizarre. I know a little Japanese and spoke some with her but she didn't seem to care about where she about her heritage. All in all, I don't think I'll be seeing any asians for some time. Sticking to my own from now on. I could have banged a couple of fat chicks for a 3-some last night too, but I texted them that I could not make it (they were high on weed or something). I should have went with them :( All in all, I'm not feeling good and should have stayed home, but YOU NEVER KNOW what could be good and what could be bad, until you try. At least I have yet another reference now for how bad sex can be, to contrast the good ones. It IS like night and day, from woman to woman. You can judge a book by it's cover sometimes and sometimes you cannot. I was Soooo fortunate to land a hottie little 18 yr old last August and October. SHE is the reference point for the cream of the crop in my mind (not bc she was the best sexually, but because she was the firmest to hold (her breasts heavenly, her eyes, voice, cheeks..none better), then there are all those ones who fall in the middle.
 
Top