I'm having trouble with an older woman, i just picked up this what I think is 38-40 year old woman who has a 14 year old kid. i dont know how old she is cos she looks damn good for her age, i wouldn't think more than 30 but with a 14 year old kid she must be older.
i text her today to meet up in the next few days time.
she replied to me with:
'Hi, i've got plans with my son and mad trying to finish work off before we go on holiday. can we catch up after hols early September? Sorry so far ahead but things are manic.'
to me this sounds like im just her ego boost and she wants me to still chase/want her in a months time. it just seems like low IL, ok it may be true that shes going on holiday for a couple weeks or whatever but somehow it just seems she just wants the ego boost of me still chasing.
should i bother to reply? or what should i reply with?
I was considering turning it sexual by saying like 'i guess in Sept you'll be more free during the week then, i'm sure we can figure out something to occupy the new found time with..
haha'
the thing is this still shows i'm willing to wait and still want her. i'm not sure really. (in sept her kid is moving away for school so wont be home during the week)
i text her today to meet up in the next few days time.
she replied to me with:
'Hi, i've got plans with my son and mad trying to finish work off before we go on holiday. can we catch up after hols early September? Sorry so far ahead but things are manic.'
to me this sounds like im just her ego boost and she wants me to still chase/want her in a months time. it just seems like low IL, ok it may be true that shes going on holiday for a couple weeks or whatever but somehow it just seems she just wants the ego boost of me still chasing.
should i bother to reply? or what should i reply with?
I was considering turning it sexual by saying like 'i guess in Sept you'll be more free during the week then, i'm sure we can figure out something to occupy the new found time with..
haha'the thing is this still shows i'm willing to wait and still want her. i'm not sure really. (in sept her kid is moving away for school so wont be home during the week)