"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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gaming an innocent naive girl with a bf

pete101

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i know the typical answers would be 'get a single one' and 'stop wasting your time'

but hypothetically speaking.. what would you do?

i met this HB and shes really innocent and naive but i made the big mistake of asking if she had a bf.. which she does.

because i act c+f, kino etc i get the impression she's interested but i think i'm mistaking her attention for lonliness cos shes new to the area and doesn't have any friends. we arrange to meet up etc but because she's so naive and innocent i don't think she realises what she's doing.

i've seen her twice now and spent hours talking being playful etc.. what should i really say to her to make intentions clear without ruining everything or is that a risk i have to take?

i read on here never to declare something like that because its an afc move..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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All women have men! She doesn't only have a man, she has game too.


Tell her she looks sexy and proceed. Tell her you're not interested in her talking about her boyfriend when she brings him up again. She wants a better man than him.
 

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Get her to talk about her boyfriend and relationship but only enough to learn if there are any cracks you can exploit.

Find an emotional hole in her life he's not filling, then you can fill that hole to fill the hole you really wish to fill.
 

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or you can stop being a piece of sh!t before you get your ass kicked.
 

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Sadao said:
or you can stop being a piece of sh!t before you get your ass kicked.
Totally agree!

Once you've been in a long term relationship, you'll know how ****ty it feels to have someone trying to game your girl even though she rejects them... It's not cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I have different views on this...

If you got some tight game and can make a girl cheat on her boyfriend with you. Then, more power to you. Cause it is up to her whether she will be loyal or disloyal to her boyfriend. So make sure she tells her boyfriend thank you stupid ho!

Or on the other hand. How would you like it if it happend to you? Why hurt someone else's relationship cause you cant get your own b!tch?

But, we just letin you know. All you bustas out there. I already fvcked your b!tch :)
 

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backbreaker said:
easy.. be a better catch than her BF.

are the principles the same for this.. ie c+f, neg-hits, kino etc..?

any examples of stuff i could/can say..
 

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pete101 said:
are the principles the same for this.. ie c+f, neg-hits, kino etc..?

any examples of stuff i could/can say..

Tell her that you really like her and you went thru all this trouble talking a bout it to other people and asking for advice on how to behave but you thought it would be best to just be honest with her and you want to eat the boyfriends jizz off her innocent pvssy.:up:
 

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ChapStick said:
Totally agree!

Once you've been in a long term relationship, you'll know how ****ty it feels to have someone trying to game your girl even though she rejects them... It's not cool.

alls fair in love and war...

Reason and Passion are often at odds with one another.

....oh and btw, innocent naive girl? psshhh :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SteakAndRice said:
Tell her that you really like her and you went thru all this trouble talking a bout it to other people and asking for advice on how to behave but you thought it would be best to just be honest with her and you want to eat the boyfriends jizz off her innocent pvssy.:up:

:cheer: Go flash, go!!! :crackup:
 

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what would be the best way to respond if she says she can't see you because it wouldn't be appropriate and her bf wouldn't be happy?
 

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pete101 said:
what would be the best way to respond if she says she can't see you because it wouldn't be appropriate and her bf wouldn't be happy?
Say "I understand" then go look for your own girlfriend.
 
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