"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gaming an HB10, good so far but.......

scorpio king

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Man, I have just gamed an Hb 10 just before writing here. She is a working student in our university. She is dutied in the free internet service of the University. An absolute Hb10. Here is how I knew her.


Me: Can I ask you an opinion on something? Because I need a female perspective.

HB10: sure!

Me: (recited the jealous girlfriend opener)

Hb10: (gives her opinion)

Me: (fluff talk and some eliciting of values)

We had rapport going. My only problem is as an Hb10, she did not have any relationships so far. I have read the Dj bible, and I am a sarger, and I know there's nothing stated in the bible on how are the rules applicable to an Hb10 w/o previous relationships. I mean some of the rules would not apply to her. Could you guys give me advice on what you will do in this situation? She's conservative too. Should I ask immediately for a date? Or should I first befriend her? (But not to the point wherein I'll land in the LJBF zone I know that!)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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same problem as you

I once gamed a Miss University candidate. 18 yrs old who had 2 insignificant relationships.

I recited the Incredible Connection and Love vs. Attraction patterns to her. I got shut down. She said that she had not experienced these things before.

The only pattern that worked was the Beautiful Eyes.

Aside from that I did some cold reading on her. Making her draw a human figure using only triangles, circles and squares.
 

everywomanshero

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I have a plan

This will require the help of one female and one male friend. If you don't have any friends that will help you, then you have a more serious problem, my friend. Go out and find some friends you can trust.

You get her to come over and hang out with you and your friends. You set it up so that you are all freezing your asses off (turn the heat down). All four of you get under the covers "too stay warm" and watch a movie. I wouldn't immediately pair off... might creep her out. When she sees the two friends getting all cuddley she's going to feel left out. I think this will icrease your odds. At some point if you hit the cuddley stage, I think the friends should "decide to go get some food or drinks". Bam, now you've got her alone.
Cuddley stage may be reached by creating some reason to touch her hand: Pam reading, spititual thing, whatever gimmic you can think of.

You;; need to do a lot of interesting things and add details to make this work, and I do believe this structure will work for a guy with confidence and some basic skills. This is all theory, though.

The other route is to actually become her bf. Regardless of whether you or another guy while you're at work busts her cherry, she'll instantely turn into a sexial maniac and start doing a bunch of guys, and you';ll most likely be one of them as long as you let her know you won't think she;'s a slut for wanting sex. No nice guy acts.
 
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