“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gaming an AVG (average looking girl)

thegator39

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I originally thought this girl I knew from high school was blowing me off...the old "I just got out of a relationship...bad timing...blah blah blah"...but I noticed on her facebook that one of her girlfriends asked her if she was attending some high school alumni party...and she gave her the same runaround "I probably can't make it because I'm so busy, but have fun!"

She's average looking (I find her pretty.) To some on here, she would even be a 3 or 4, to others, a flat-out 5, maybe a 6 to those who like the plain jane, average look.

I also feel like me and her could be a match (similar personalities...she seems to be the quiet type)...I'm not sure how to re-game her without seeming desperate.

When I asked her out, I just asked her if she wanted to get coffee (this was a couple months ago) and she gave me the lines I told you which I thought weren't genuine until I saw the same thing with that girl.

Btw, I'm also cold approaching and gaming other women on dating sites...just feel like she might actually be a good one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Average looking girl, or average looking girl who thinks she's hot?

Whole nother crazy ballgame with that one... it's not important how hot she is. It's important how hot she THINKS she is.
 

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Average looking girl who doesn't think she's hot. T shirt and jeans, minimal make-up, all around average looks, and the kind who's very quiet except around her close friends from what I knew of her in high school.
 

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thegator39 said:
Average looking girl who doesn't think she's hot.
If in fact that's true, then don't overgame. But I'm putting my money on the fact that she thinks she's hot. When in doubt, assume she thinks she's hot unless she's super fat. And if she's super fat you wouldn't be gaming her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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