games

[Alex_L]

Just like too say this girl really played games with me.. for months in fact and then everytime she got with someone id be like what about me? aren't u gonna say ur sorry for leading me on, and she'd just be rude and arrogrant about it and say she never.

Was gonna just walk away last week (just read that thread in the tips section which says too do the same),.. but once I realised she didn't seem so bothered bout me walking away this time even though we've known each other 2 years an were sort of close....

So I decided it was time for me too play games with her, may aswell have some fun with her I think maybe i'll learn some things from her ... the 1st game is called attachment (bearing in mind back along she was so attached too me she could not go a day without speaking too me, then she got a new bf and I sort of ignored her so shes now got used too me not being there and not so bothered) .. basically now i'm paying her more attention then ever texting her every day, complienting her and making her feel great bout herself just being really caring etc (basically creating attachment for her too me), then after a few months ill suddenly stop for no reason too she how she reacts......got plenty others to try but i'll do one at a time...but I'll defintly try it on with her big time when i'm out with her even though she has a boyfriend just too see how my seducing skills are got nothing too lose really.

Im thinking i'll leave it ages months , intill she is at a real low point and then walk away rite then (a)

 

[Alex_L]

This is too be done in staggers btw.

i.e

2 weeks of contact everyday.

2-3 days no contact (she will be expecting u too contact her seeing u had everyday for the last 2 weeks, so why havent u today?, she's guarantied too think/worry about it, and she will miss u)

2-3 weeks of contact more or less everyday.

5 days - week no initail contact (she will feel worse this time and shell defintly try too contact u.. u kissed her ass made her feel great for the past 2 weeks and now she misses it. )

2-3 weeks of contact more or less everyday.

week + no initail contact (she will be feeling lost without u and down and start too realise that she needs u, she's already had at least 2 weeks thinking bout u in a emotional way wondering about u why u dont call she will of thought bout u so many hours she will get confused and start too have some sort of feelings for u)

2-3 weeks of contact more or less everyday.

2 weeks - month no initail contact (shel be missing u like crazy and thinking bout u loads alot will be going through her head for sure... now is the time too act on her feelings if u want)

 

[onyx]

dunno sounds abit much to man..but i dont kow sh(i)t

i think she might think u givin her 2 muhc interest and get put offf...but like i said wot do i know



and if i was u i wudnt even bother with her, id move on, if she was gunna get with u she will hav by now, shes been goin out with other guys, and 2 years? u may b in the friends zone now

move on man let her fight for ur attention...

 

[Alex_L]

Originally posted by onyx
dunno sounds abit much to man..but i dont kow sh(i)t

i think she might think u givin her 2 muhc interest and get put offf...but like i said wot do i know



and if i was u i wudnt even bother with her, id move on, if she was gunna get with u she will hav by now, shes been goin out with other guys, and 2 years? u may b in the friends zone now

move on man let her fight for ur attention...

Yeah your rite, I shouldn't,.. i have moved on but I like too keep my options open,..i've learnt alot from her and I actually do enjoy her company as friend, but i also wanna teach her a lesson and it's a game I can't lose I either end up getting intamite with her which I want or I'll just end up hurting her which I want too

 

[neoncola]

I don't know if you should cycle it so much. If you contact her frequently, then you don't for a few days and then you start again she will become less worried about the times that you haven't contacted her because she knows you will start again. Hope I am making sense. I think have a period of contacting her all the time and then cut contact, don't keep cycling it.

 

[crotchrocket]

It takes too much energy to start paying a lot of attention, ignoring and on and on.

Another effective variation of this, that I have just started with a couple girls I know is: to pay attention to every girl EXCEPT her, which you should be doing anyway. If you hang out with people that you both know, the best thing that can happen is if a bunch of other girls start talking about you, and we all know how much girls talk. Not only will she become at least a little jealous, but she will start to think what an idiot she was to ever let you go. Don't be rude about it that would show you're just being vindictive and therefore must still care, but be totally polite and apathetic like she means nothing to you anymore. But once you start this you can't turn back, any hiccup in the process gives her hope, and the best way to break anyone down is to make them feel all hope is lost!

They say we value most, what we had and have lost, and I'd have to say I agree.

 

[Alex_L]

Originally posted by neoncola
I don't know if you should cycle it so much. If you contact her frequently, then you don't for a few days and then you start again she will become less worried about the times that you haven't contacted her because she knows you will start again. Hope I am making sense. I think have a period of contacting her all the time and then cut contact, don't keep cycling it.

yeah maybe, ill think bout it more.

I like the idea of predictblity too,.. for 1 example, say for intance u met a girl and on your way too where ever u go each day, and she waited across the street at her bus stop.. and u crossed over too talk too her every day for a period, then one day u just walk on without stoppin and u do it again the next day ...she expects u too cross over too speak too her and the nwhen u don't she wonders why u stopped , maybe was it somit she sed or have u met someone else it wud defintly boost her interest levels.

for example 2 say u phoned / texted within a certain time regulary for example u phoned her every monday sometime between 7pm and 11:30pm,..and u had done that for te past 4 / 5 weeks... she now expects u too phone / text her the next monday between that time. it's like u've told her ill phone u monday evening (but u haven't she just knows u will) she will end up checking her phone every 5 mins all night for your all but u never call eally get her thinking.


.. I'm not saying just do one of these things and ita'l create instant attraction but if it's done right and used with other methods and varied, it will get n e girl thinking about u in that emotional part of her brain u want her too think bout u in.