"Games women play" - A GREAT READ!!!

[DonGorgon]

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[Alex DeLarge]

As long as you ignore all these stupid little games, they will not affect you. Women want sex just as much as men do, it's just a matter of getting them to an isolated location and escalating.. Whether they're thin or fat. Women have vaginas which give pleasure from having a penis inside of them.

I went out with a girl the other night, simply said to her "Hey this place is kinda boring. Wanna go fool around at my place?" and we left. Got a nice BJ and got laid for the first time.

Know what helped me out? Not even BOTHERING to analyze these stupid little games. I did a lot of things this board told me NOT to do. (told her I was a virgin, told her a bunch of embarrassing stories about myself, told her she was pretty cute, etc..)

I just remained cool the whole time, teased her a bit, and had fun. I didn't do hot/cold, I was pretty straight forward with her.

I was not desperate.

I had a "I don't really give a fvck if this girls not down to screw around" attitude. She's pretty cool to just hangout with. She could go NC on me next week and it wouldn't really bother me. There's a ton of other girls in this city and SHE KNOWS THIS. I don't work out, I don't make a ton of money, I don't have a car, I sleep on a couch at my friend's place.

All of this analyzation has to go.. I never thought getting a chick into bed could be that fvcking easy. People on here are making the dating game seem like a bootcamp obstacle course.

 

[Aaron B]

I haven't had time to read it all yet.

My sense is that this material is important for one main reason:

It is an attempt to think through how women behave, what motivates them, what beliefs they hold, their deceptive practices, etc.

Regardless of the accuracy of the material or the skill of the author, the material has value because it opens a discussion that just isn't taking place in our society.

Our society shines a bright light of investigation on male behavior and often passes judgement. Women are not usually subjected to the same scrutiny and when their mistreatment of men is discovered it is usually ignored or brushed aside or excused.

 

[Aaron B]

All of this analyzation has to go..

I disagree

In my opinion, it's our attachment to the analysis that has to go, and also our judgments about the information we discover thru analysis.

I agree with you int he sense that from what I see, most guys do not correctly use their skill of analysis to then make proper rational unemotional decisions with respect to dating and relationships.

Instead many do what we often accuse women of: act based on emotion then use intellect to backwards-rationalize.

Personally I have benefited greatly in all facets of my life (not just women) by learning to use my natural skills of analysis.

Using your analytical skills properly is a benefit. Using them incorrectly can be detrimental. The analysis itself is neutral. It's your own prejudices and judgments and emotions that clouds the waters. You use analysis to uncover facts and learn new things and that is neither good nor bad. It is the gathering of information. What you do with the info can then either be bad, good, or neutral (depending on perspective of course).

It seems to me you've used your own powers of anaylsis to review your actions with this girl and you are using that information to help you improve with women. So why would you ever stop analyzing? (and I doubt you could ever gain enough control of your mind to stop).

I agree 100% that being a man and getting women is easy. Of course it's easy - it's natural for humans. All of our ancestors managed to procreate. Mentally handicapped people meet and have sex. It's just not the big deal we make it out to be.

Also you should not be surprised that you "broke the rules" and succeeded. Once you learn and operate based on the rules, you are then free to break them. If you break them before you master them, then you get what all these AFC's with oneitis that start threads about that special girl have.

You've got skills. You earned them and you developed them. They are now a part of who you are, and that shines through even if you take a woman to a first-date dinner and pick up the check, or tell her you are a virgin.

I guarantee you, you don't act like most virgins. Hell she may not even have believed you at first.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I get where you're coming from Aaron B. I agree with you totally. I think that's why I came off in that direction. I've definitely let this knowledge get to the paranoid/emotional side of me.

Most chicks didn't believe me when I told them. Most thought I was full of sh1t.. But what can you do. I think the reason is, cause my best friends get laid left and right. One of them is a natural and has banged over 100 girls and is only my age (22).

 

[DonGorgon]

As long as you ignore all these stupid little games, they will not affect you. Women want sex just as much as men do,.

yes but the big difference is that women dont want it from the same dude because they have soo many more options than men do they tend to have less need to be "dedicated to one male.. i.e. most males have a hard time finding new females so they try to make relationships work and hold on tight to what they have..

only the top 10% of males who are alpha males dont need tok worry about the games women play cause women chase them but the other 90% of males tend to struggle.

 

[ezio]

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[DonGorgon]

As long as you ignore all these stupid little games, they will not affect you. Women want sex just as much as men do, it's just a matter of getting them to an isolated location and escalating.. Whether they're thin or fat. Women have vaginas which give pleasure from having a penis inside of them.

I went out with a girl the other night, simply said to her "Hey this place is kinda boring. Wanna go fool around at my place?" and we left. Got a nice BJ and got laid for the first time.

Know what helped me out? Not even BOTHERING to analyze these stupid little games. I did a lot of things this board told me NOT to do. (told her I was a virgin, told her a bunch of embarrassing stories about myself, told her she was pretty cute, etc..)

I just remained cool the whole time, teased her a bit, and had fun. I didn't do hot/cold, I was pretty straight forward with her.

I was not desperate.

I had a "I don't really give a fvck if this girls not down to screw around" attitude. She's pretty cool to just hangout with. She could go NC on me next week and it wouldn't really bother me. There's a ton of other girls in this city and SHE KNOWS THIS. I don't work out, I don't make a ton of money, I don't have a car, I sleep on a couch at my friend's place.

All of this analyzation has to go.. I never thought getting a chick into bed could be that fvcking easy. People on here are making the dating game seem like a bootcamp obstacle course.

^^^this is the best method to quickly F another mans GF also... its zoo casual and simple.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Sexy ass post.

Read it all fellas

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