"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Games with a girl who's "Seeing Someone"

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Ok, so this current girl I'm after is as she puts it "kinda together" with this guy. I saw her out at a house party last night, the other guy wasn't there and anyways I worked my game nicely to the point where she was all over me with the kino, and used my busting her as an excuse to pretend to be all sad then come back over and hug me and say "ohhh I'm sorry for overreacting" which happened 3 or 4 times... Anyway, today i sent her a quick text asking what she's up to today which was going to lead to me seeing if she wanted to catch up this afternoon and she writes back saying she's about to go meet the other guy and asks me what I'm up to. Is this a good chance to write back and exercise some game and if so what? Should I just not write back or is that too rude? Or should I simply write back and state the boring truth that I'm up to nothing.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok so things continued, she started talking about the guy she's "kinda together" with and i gave her the old 'thats nice' and she just laughed and we moved on....any of you guys got any more advice on this kinda situation?
 
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Try dating woman who do not have "boyfriends" or 'seeing someone"
 
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it's all part of the game.. act like it shouldn't be an issue, becuase it shouldn't be.. so what if she has a friend that is giving her the pipe... say okay and move on.

women are subtle.. they know what they are doing. She knows you are probably panning out right now because she mentioned another guy

God! don't let this attractive woman know any other men on earth! (sarcasm)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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