"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Games with a girl who's "Seeing Someone"

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Ok, so this current girl I'm after is as she puts it "kinda together" with this guy. I saw her out at a house party last night, the other guy wasn't there and anyways I worked my game nicely to the point where she was all over me with the kino, and used my busting her as an excuse to pretend to be all sad then come back over and hug me and say "ohhh I'm sorry for overreacting" which happened 3 or 4 times... Anyway, today i sent her a quick text asking what she's up to today which was going to lead to me seeing if she wanted to catch up this afternoon and she writes back saying she's about to go meet the other guy and asks me what I'm up to. Is this a good chance to write back and exercise some game and if so what? Should I just not write back or is that too rude? Or should I simply write back and state the boring truth that I'm up to nothing.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok so things continued, she started talking about the guy she's "kinda together" with and i gave her the old 'thats nice' and she just laughed and we moved on....any of you guys got any more advice on this kinda situation?
 
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Try dating woman who do not have "boyfriends" or 'seeing someone"
 
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it's all part of the game.. act like it shouldn't be an issue, becuase it shouldn't be.. so what if she has a friend that is giving her the pipe... say okay and move on.

women are subtle.. they know what they are doing. She knows you are probably panning out right now because she mentioned another guy

God! don't let this attractive woman know any other men on earth! (sarcasm)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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