Games should be fun (rant alert).

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I enjoy the posts on here but there are a bunch of commenters who make game seem like hard work.

There are guys doing pick-up everyday. I admire their dedication and determination in the face of rejection but that just doesn't sound like that much fun.

On the random facts post there are guys talking about minute details of posture and tone. Who wants to micromanage every aspect of their day like this? Not me, again it sounds like too much work.

The guys going to the gym everyday. If you are doing it for yourself that is awesome. If you are doing it to get laid then you are doing it for the wrong reason.

It also makes me feel like women are controlling these peoples lives, whether they know it or not.

Don't get me wrong. I love flirting and seduction. It is fun. I like people. I like and am genuinely interested in people. If while that is happening I meet a woman I like the look of, I'll game her. I don't go out just to meet women. That feels a little bit needy to me.

Don't try to seduce women because you feel like you should. Do it because it is fun and you enjoy it. If you aren't go bowling instead.

If it feels like it is an effort you are doing it wrong IMVHO.

 

[Roober]

Game isn't hard work if you like people. I believe everybody has something to teach you, man or woman. Engaging with people is what makes us human. The game is just the added bonus of being that fun and open person.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I also understand thay when you start something it is hard at first, and you need to remember some basic skils, and you make mistakes but you should still be enjoying the process...

 

[Alvafe]

its all about on how well you would do, some its easy and like it, some don't like it that much and it will be a chore, and that is everything you do.

for me sometimes I think I should try and find a GF just so I can stop trying to meet new people, I find tiresome to deal with most of then, but then I think over forget about it, i'm far better single I would be with someone else, myself I go to the gym mostly because i'm likeing how my body is changing, that kinda give me a wish to go even more.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Women are NOT life. Game... Well it depends on how much time you devote to it. Like everything, if you aren't a natural it takes work and a bit of toughness to work through the failures.

Having women in your life can be awesome or a pain in the butt. Remember though, they are coming into YOUR life. Live the life you want. If someone wants to share it with you then great but if they don't who cares if you are still living the life you want.