"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Games or Activities to do inside your appt?

Borgon

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Hey, I know the main goal is to fuvk her but what are some things to do to make the time past to talk and get alot of kino, other than chillin, listening to music or watching a movie, playing spades, uno. What are some other things you do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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get her drunk off cheap wine. The rest is in the bag !
 

Borgon

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Yeah i smoke and got goose on deck, but thats for the weekends. Sometimes i got gurls wanting to chill on weekdays and they arent the type that i wanna spend my money out or be seeing in public much.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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Ohhhh....

My favorite is to tell her you're going to teach her how to dance. If you don't know how to dance some form of ballroom dance then go take a couple of classes. Thats all you need. I like Argentine Tango as it is very sexy and close proximity.

I have wood floors so all my furniture slides out of the way very easy.
I also have very good seductive style lighting. This helps alot.

Then I bust on the music. I start out building her comfort zone by doing basic drills where she'll just mirror me or hold my hands and move with me. Within ten minutes we'll be dancing.

The second you start dancing it builds IMMEDIATE sexual tension. It also creates plenty of ops to make fun of her. It gets her very comfortable being held tightly by you and "rubbing pelvis." It also lets you express dominance as in the tango the man literally pushes and pulls the woman to control her. And it DHV.

It's also just something that's fun to do. SUPER SUAVE!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEe2j43X-Ms
check out that tango vid.

Other ways to kill time:

Mess around on Rhapsody just browsing music.
Grab a blanket and go outside under the stars.
Teach her to cook (personal fav is chicken cordon blu).
Massages (never done this. I need to learn how to give a massage).
Go on a stroll through the neighbor hood.

The important thing is to always have a plan.
If you like scrapbooking (fag) then sit down and scrapbook with her.
If you like candle making then make some candles.
Practice art.
 
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