Games and Fluff

[instantnoodles]

I'd like to let this out of my system:

Why can't things be normal? Why must we play games in order to get what we want?

I just want for once, a normal relationship - drama free, stress free...smoothness. No lies, no betrayal, no messiness. People are ALWAYS worrying about STUPID power.

It seems impossible. For every game that is played, I must waste energy and worry "if I behave normally, will they win the game? "

I'm tired of everything. I have enough in my life and this just adds to it.

Every time I need my special person, they are not there. Instead they are playing a filthy game. If I voice my concern, they get offended and tell me I'm being weird. Then it feels like I can't speak my mind.


I vowed that I will BREAK these games in two and NOTHING will stop me.

 

[.Paradox.]

Because men and women want different things.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

You only want what you can't have.

 

[instantnoodles]

You only want what you can't have.

Are you KIDDING? For anyone who wants what they can't have, they must have some serious issue - mostly self-esteem issue too.

I think it's more the person and what would better suit them, someone who also enjoys games.

 

[djgirl]

i hear ya noodles! its like society cant be upfront and ask for what they want, instead they beat around the bush giving false breadcrumbs and fluff

 

[instantnoodles]

i hear ya noodles! its like society cant be upfront and ask for what they want, instead they beat around the bush giving false breadcrumbs and fluff

Damn Stra!ght!

 

[floydb25]

Heh... Beyond the usual attraction- and game-related stuff... most people simply suck. Doesn't matter if you befriend or date them, or even become acquaintances, or walk by them. Most are competitive, fake, selfish, controlling, two-faced, and want the power; to be top dog, in control, and "better" than everyone else. Of course, it's the realities of society that causes this. People get screwed over, find out what works, and go with it... lest they get screwed over again and again. It's too harsh and fake out there to be "nice" and real.

Also, most people who act this way fit a certain mold - which, ironically enough, is found most attractive and sought after. People don't seek after (and certainly don't respect) the average, plain, nice, boring folk. Instead, they CHOOSE to get caught up in the games, drama, status, and competition of the fake, assertive types.

Of course, everyone would LIKE things to be normal, easy, mutual, respectful, and stress-free, but that's not reality. But it can be - if that's what you associate with.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

interesting to see that 99% of game-hating threads' authors are girls.

 

[Mike32ct]

People don't want their freedom threatened or their lives significantly changed even if they are attracted to someone.

I think both men and women know deep down relationships are a big life change and a lot of work. We are reluctant to get into one unless the person is really worth it.

Games help cover up the uncomfortable "Should I or shouldn't I?" feelings you get when you meet someone.

 

[Jair213]

OMG .. c'mon guy's its not like this with everyone. It depends who the heck you meet. There's good sane people out there GEEEZZ.. smh

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Originally Posted by djgirl
i hear ya noodles! its like society cant be upfront and ask for what they want, instead they beat around the bush giving false breadcrumbs and fluff

Damn Stra!ght!

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