the problem i have with the way natural game is taught that while they want you to be your self they often forget that being yourself is what got you to where you are… which is no where. so instead of becoming a true natural they become clone of the guy who was trying to teach you how to be yourself!
there are two ways people can learn to be naturals learn from your environment unconsciously or you can model someone consciously until it becomes unconscious.
again problem is you are not being yourself you are fallowing the lead of your leader instead of fallowing your heart
there is another way a way that combines both styles and allows you to become the man you want to be
its called game-plan
game-planing is simple you ask yourself whats your goal for interacting with women. do you want ons, are you looking for a ltr or are you simply looking to become a better conversationalist ether way you need to define this in your gameplan. your game plan needs to be brutally detailed. do you like talking on the phone? if u r like me then hell no you dont and you want a way to eliminate the phone. these type of things need to be noted
once you have your game-plan done then its time find ways to implement your game-plan. you will need to develop skills. for example if you want to show a women that you know her better than she knows herself then you would need to learn to cold read or if you want to use your job as a sports writer as a sign you being worldly then you would need to learn storytelling so that you could convey your worldly ways in a interesting fashion.
game-planning allows you to make up your own rules based on how you want you want your interactions to go. you learn the skills necessary to to implement your goals hence becoming a true natural.
there are two ways people can learn to be naturals learn from your environment unconsciously or you can model someone consciously until it becomes unconscious.
again problem is you are not being yourself you are fallowing the lead of your leader instead of fallowing your heart
there is another way a way that combines both styles and allows you to become the man you want to be
its called game-plan
game-planing is simple you ask yourself whats your goal for interacting with women. do you want ons, are you looking for a ltr or are you simply looking to become a better conversationalist ether way you need to define this in your gameplan. your game plan needs to be brutally detailed. do you like talking on the phone? if u r like me then hell no you dont and you want a way to eliminate the phone. these type of things need to be noted
once you have your game-plan done then its time find ways to implement your game-plan. you will need to develop skills. for example if you want to show a women that you know her better than she knows herself then you would need to learn to cold read or if you want to use your job as a sports writer as a sign you being worldly then you would need to learn storytelling so that you could convey your worldly ways in a interesting fashion.
game-planning allows you to make up your own rules based on how you want you want your interactions to go. you learn the skills necessary to to implement your goals hence becoming a true natural.