Game Vs Naturally letting life run its course

[Crissco]

I have a problem I need to be addressed. My goals lately is to pull SNLs. Get them in bed a quickly a possible. I know theres nothing wrong with that, but it seems like im missing out on the other fun. Going mini-golfing, rock climbing, movies, dates just having fun.

My whole goal is to take them back and bang them the first night without getting to know the person.

I know alot of you will disagree but is that really the way to live life? Dont get me wrong im good at what I do(Just pulled a SNL from a club 3 nights ago).

All I want i more and more sex with different women, each night (Ego validation). I know im still young, but like I said i feel like im missing out the other fun stuff.

Its like, i make every new girl a new conquest and challenge for me to conquer. The end result getting layed(Which happens 99% of the times because of my solid game).

In the end sex is going to happen anyway but I make it a priority, not just let it naturally happen by nature running its course.


Am I wrong here? Or like my father and friend told me, just go out and have fun, if it happens it happens it doesn't it doesn't.

 

[Full^Benny^Henny]

Your not necessarily wrong it depends where you are at in life. I'm 25 and I still do that sh!t because being single is WAY WAY WAY better than being in my opinion, you may end up like me and saying "I think it's time for a relationship." Then at your peak you settle down and a year later you hate your life for it. I did that several years ago haven't had one yet.

But what I do is I go through a natural plethora of chicks that I'm banging then I get tired of it and annoyed by them so I go through a dry spell of a month or two and I just chill with my buddies do my hobbies, basically do me for a bit. Then I start all over again. The whole time I'm working a lot. Works pretty good for me.

Just don't fall into this lie that you have to be in a relationship, it's bull**** because it sucks. Nothing is to say you can't hang out with these chicks a little bit for a month or so. That's what I do, I make a connection but then I'm reminded I don't want a relationship so I break it off and smooth it over.

Hope that helpss!

 

[Mike32ct]

I believe that game requires effort for most guys, even those really good at it. Sure you could kick back, stop or minimize your gaming, and probably still get laid on occassion. But I'm guessing your numbers would be less.

It's really up to you. You could pursue more fun hobbies and still score, although it might be less frequent and/or consistent. Or continue doing what you're doing because you can.

 

[Crissco]

Your not necessarily wrong it depends where you are at in life. I'm 25 and I still do that sh!t because being single is WAY WAY WAY better than being in my opinion, you may end up like me and saying "I think it's time for a relationship." Then at your peak you settle down and a year later you hate your life for it. I did that several years ago haven't had one yet.

But what I do is I go through a natural plethora of chicks that I'm banging then I get tired of it and annoyed by them so I go through a dry spell of a month or two and I just chill with my buddies do my hobbies, basically do me for a bit. Then I start all over again. The whole time I'm working a lot. Works pretty good for me.

Just don't fall into this lie that you have to be in a relationship, it's bull**** because it sucks. Nothing is to say you can't hang out with these chicks a little bit for a month or so. That's what I do, I make a connection but then I'm reminded I don't want a relationship so I break it off and smooth it over.

Hope that helpss!

Thats what I do too...I usually stick with a FWB for 6 months give or take then go to the next one. OR im baning a new girl every week or sometimes every night. But its just for validation on my part.

Not sure if u ever heard of the gerbil wheel but its basically being stuck in a wheel doing the same thing over and over again. Thats not me at all!!

I need something new, adventuress!!! Spontaneous!! All the time

Maybe I need to switch things up a bit here, one month get layed every night or week, next month, no sex and just rock climbing, fun, road trips, adventure!!

Ill figure it out eventually, it was just something on my mind tonight

Thanks bro!

 

[Crissco]

I believe that game requires effort for most guys, even those really good at it. Sure you could kick back, stop or minimize your gaming, and probably still get laid on occassion. But I'm guessing your numbers would be less.

It's really up to you. You could pursue more fun hobbies and still score, although it might be less frequent and/or consistent. Or continue doing what you're doing because you can.

I literally am so obsessed with game that its taking away my money. I have none. I think I need to get my life in order first, make money, then girls will come and keep game in the back of mine, unlike right now where i have money in the back of my mind(Im still persueing my goals though dont get me wrong, but game is higher then that in my list, hate to say it)

 

[Mike32ct]

Agreed. The downside is gaming is expensive. That's something we don't talk about much here. If it's really affecting your finances, then it's probably a good idea to scale it back and go out much less often. Then use that freed up time to work on things to improve your financial situation.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I don't think that "Game" and "Naturally letting things take their course" are exclusive of each other. Game is what I use to let things naturally take their course in a way that is favorable to me. You can never stop gaming whether it be your wife or a little freak at a club you always have to maintain your female politics. You can loose the game whether you are playing it or not.

Gaming ladies doesnt have to be expensive, your using what you can do for them (like spending alot of money) as a crutch. I'll buy a $10 bottle of wine invite a lady over and have a great evening just talking to her. In essence thats all you need, good conversation and a little distraction like a bottle of some alcoholic substance, a joint, a movie or a game I dunno see what she likes and figure it out. If you cant stimulate a woman just sitting and talking then you have no game... not yet.

 

[Crissco]

Agreed. The downside is gaming is expensive. That's something we don't talk about much here. If it's really affecting your finances, then it's probably a good idea to scale it back and go out much less often. Then use that freed up time to work on things to improve your financial situation.

Night game is expensive, day game is free. Im going to start to get into day game more and see how I do. If i pull SNLs and build up rapport through the day, so be it. If not, practice makes perfect.

I don't think that "Game" and "Naturally letting things take their course" are exclusive of each other. Game is what I use to let things naturally take their course in a way that is favorable to me. You can never stop gaming whether it be your wife or a little freak at a club you always have to maintain your female politics. You can loose the game whether you are playing it or not.

Gaming ladies doesnt have to be expensive, your using what you can do for them (like spending alot of money) as a crutch. I'll buy a $10 bottle of wine invite a lady over and have a great evening just talking to her. In essence thats all you need, good conversation and a little distraction like a bottle of some alcoholic substance, a joint, a movie or a game I dunno see what she likes and figure it out. If you cant stimulate a woman just sitting and talking then you have no game... not yet.

Read my post above about day game. During the night im always prone to but something.

Life is a game, you have to play it to win it, weather it be manipulation, persuasion, influence...etc Not just on women, but on men too. If manipulating my boss is going to get me that $14,000 raise, im gonna do it. But im sure you get my point by now.

Im not a wine and diner, at all..I mean at all...For me, once there in my house or room its all over. (Building up rapport is easy for me throughout the night)

99% of the time, the chicks arent even drunk, so believe me, im good at what I do.