"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Game theory really is a horrible crutch to me now

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Man.

I been looking at some game theory.

But I don't need it.

The only reason was because I didn't know how to respond during a conversation with a sexy babe.

Studying game only ends up slowing me down.

This girl last week said I was the best looking guy in the whole bar. Friday night some girl thought I was a personal trainer.

I can read into game, whether I should do cat-string, play hard to get, create comfort, go from C1 to C2, neg. Jesus christ I am not the type to mechanise seduction.

It's about frame, dominance, playfulness, enjoying the moment, having control over the situation, and extracting the girl.

These girls go out all the time and they flirt for hours every week if they find dudes they like.

Girls are all just completely different too. One may like a direct approach, while another may not.

I don't think I'm going to do much to change my personally. I'll just be myself TYVM. All that needs improving is the same **** that always gets improved on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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With compliments on your looks such as those you have received, I wouldn't worry too much about game. You could be boring af and still pull. Put the "game" books away. Seriously.

Talk, make good eye contact, touch her a few times casually while talking, and invite her to "watch some tv" or something at your place.
 
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Man.

I been looking at some game theory.

But I don't need it.

The only reason was because I didn't know how to respond during a conversation with a sexy babe.

Studying game only ends up slowing me down.

This girl last week said I was the best looking guy in the whole bar. Friday night some girl thought I was a personal trainer.

I can read into game, whether I should do cat-string, play hard to get, create comfort, go from C1 to C2, neg. Jesus christ I am not the type to mechanise seduction.

It's about frame, dominance, playfulness, enjoying the moment, having control over the situation, and extracting the girl.

These girls go out all the time and they flirt for hours every week if they find dudes they like.

Girls are all just completely different too. One may like a direct approach, while another may not.

I don't think I'm going to do much to change my personally. I'll just be myself TYVM. All that needs improving is the same **** that always gets improved on.
I agree... Its more of an art, than a science. No theory can possibly cover all situations at all times! Relaxing, and letting things flow, is really important. Most of the strategies fall under the illusion of action, anyway... Which fails, at the end of the day.
 

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lol your responses are quite relieving tbh.

Thanks a lot bros.
 

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F*ck theories. Focus on facts.

PUA gimmicks are just another way to kiss a woman's ass. A man confident in his own value doesn't need to play any kind of "game" other than what he creates for his own benefit.

Using PUA theories is similar to eating diet food. Its a "quick fix" for people who are too lazy to focus on the root problem. Fix the root problem and everything else falls into place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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F*ck theories. Focus on facts.

PUA gimmicks are just another way to kiss a woman's ass. A man confident in his own value doesn't need to play any kind of "game" other than what he creates for his own benefit.

Using PUA theories is similar to eating diet food. Its a "quick fix" for people who are too lazy to focus on the root problem. Fix the root problem and everything else falls into place.
true, but sometimes you don't want to go through months of self transformation just to get a girl
 

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If game did work and made everything predictable it would be boring as fvck. If everything was unpredictable and nothing worked it would be frustrating as fvck.

Women (and other people in general) are fun because they are somewhat predictable, but not entirely. Predictable enough to not be frustrating and unpredictable enough to not be boring. It provides a challenge, one that can be beaten but not easily. That is the essence of a good game, that is what game developers lean on to make games that sell. Too easy or hard and people lose interest, make a hard yet possible challenge and it's a recipe for addiction.

No amount of theory can make the unpredictable become predictable, neither should it be. However, the basic theory of what makes a good game is extremely powerful in captivating women.
 

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If game did work and made everything predictable it would be boring as fvck. If everything was unpredictable and nothing worked it would be frustrating as fvck.

Women (and other people in general) are fun because they are somewhat predictable, but not entirely. Predictable enough to not be frustrating and unpredictable enough to not be boring. It provides a challenge, one that can be beaten but not easily. That is the essence of a good game, that is what game developers lean on to make games that sell. Too easy or hard and people lose interest, make a hard yet possible challenge and it's a recipe for addiction.

No amount of theory can make the unpredictable become predictable, neither should it be. However, the basic theory of what makes a good game is extremely powerful in captivating women.
i have never in my life thought women were fun.

getting numbers in interesting ways(with unusual openers and gimmicks usually) and telling the story to your friend is fun though.
 

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i have never in my life thought women were fun.

getting numbers in interesting ways(with unusual openers and gimmicks usually) and telling the story to your friend is fun though.
That's a little bit sad. Hopefully you'll find the fun one day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everything we read out there is guidelines which mainly focuses on IMPROVING YOURSELF...

It is a great starting point for men who did not have strong alpha male in their life. It should not be taken as fact, and merely provides a good launching point. Once you establish that foundation, you can use your newfound knowledge to bolster your mind and your body...

I like to look at it like college. I won't ever use the things I learned in genetics, anatomy, geography or any of the other pain in the a$$ classes that I took. What I did gain from the experience? Perseverance, the struggle of balancing work and school, drive, work ethic, great study habits, etc etc. Some people are too obtuse to learn the material and apply it their own lives, and their laziness will not be rewarded with success.
 

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true, but sometimes you don't want to go through months of self transformation just to get a girl
Well you might as well if you're willing to degrade yourself with PUA gimmicks to get a girl.

Personally.. I don't want to get "a girl" I want to have access to the hottest and sexist women possible and on my terms. There are many advantages to f*cking and dating hot women. Also.. since women are already a pain in the ass to deal with.. they might as well be hot if I'm going to bother. Why go through ANY kind of stress for an average girl?
 

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Pua gimmicks also include a good amount of chasing/persuing. Which is at odds with being scarce.

It all seems microwavable, like a hot pocket.
 
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