Game should be invisible.

[Warrior74]

Every time I've ran good game on a chic, I was never consciously aware of what I was doing. Afterward I could if I wanted to break it down into every little nerdy detail from throwing negs, push pull, etc etc. But when your playing the game its no time for thinking. It's like playing football, you don't analyze the play until afterward, you train beforehand, you rely on your instincts and training in the moment and you review later.

That being said, I notice that when a lot of you guys are in the field, its obvious that you are running game on girls. That's where a lot of rejection comes from. Some of my best game has been from the girls point of view invisible. Oh I did everything by the book, but she never noticed. It was just conversation or hanging out, and then the next thing she knew, she found herself very attracted.

If you've ever seen a guy try way to hard, you know exactly the opposite of what I mean.

So how do you get to that point, you know what women call a smooth player? The same way you get to Carnegie hall (or I should say American Idol these days), practice, practice practice. Sorry but there is no magic bullet. the smoothest players I know have ran game on girls every day, on girls everywhere even if they have no plans to sleep with a girl. They constantly practice talking, entertaining, push pulling, negging, everything on woman all the time. And the result they have gotten good and slept with a ton of women. They have learned the art of being subtle. I had a few friends who were really crass when we were starting out in college but they grew into being really suave and cool with it later. Most of them are married now and settled down with hot wives.

Just a few thoughts that I figured could help some of you guys. I'm sure the mods will move this to Tips, but nobody reads the tips section.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Dood, I completely agree. When I'm running really good game, its just fluid and smooth. I barely notice it. But like you said, I can easily break it down when necessary.

This happened a couple days ago. My brother was with me the whole time. After I ran game on the girl, my brother said she was lit like a candle. He said he was amazed of how carefree I was.

Its all about being witty and gutsy. Never worry about offending someone, unless your just being a jerk. Always have to balls to say what you want. Ask the questions YOU want. Make the jokes YOU want. Be quick with your words, and overall, just have fun.

Being witty takes some practice. For practice, I come up with jokes all the time. Constantly pumping out the funniest stuff I can. Especially when you are having a conversation with someone. Also, this is really random and kinda over the top, but I freestyle (rap) when I'm by myself. I try to pick a subject and rhyme about it. Its really hard, but it forces you to think outside the box. Its really cool to hear your results as well.

Mainly, just have fun.

 

[thechosenone2190]

Please add this to the DJ bible or something. I keep forgetting this.