"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RiceandChicken

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I am going to Six Flags in about a couple of weeks, so...I was wandering, would it be good to put my still rusty new skills to practice and see what kind of results I get? Should I do it with random chicks around my age...ones where I'll prolly never see again. Thoughts please? Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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Yes. You should try talking to girls.

In fact, you should try talking to girls before going to six flags. And probably after, too.

Practice makes perfect.

Actually I hate that saying. Here's a new saying: Confidence comes from experience.

So go experience. Have fun.
 

AlexLefty

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LearningSlowly said:
Here's a new saying: Confidence comes from experience.

So go experience. Have fun.
You sir, are a genius!
 

Limmy

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confidence comes from experience ? so it would be safe to assume bad experiences like getting turned off by a girl gives you more insurance ? hmmm
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alxrose04

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Heck yea it's great idea! It your practice playground. There are so many opportunities, after a while it's going to be hard to get reject because you've practice so many times. And what will that bring? EXPERIENCE!!!!! Experience and the knowledge that "Hey, I've been here before. I've experienced the good and the bad and it's as bad as I thought. It's all good baby!"
 
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