"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RiceandChicken

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I am going to Six Flags in about a couple of weeks, so...I was wandering, would it be good to put my still rusty new skills to practice and see what kind of results I get? Should I do it with random chicks around my age...ones where I'll prolly never see again. Thoughts please? Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LearningSlowly

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Yes. You should try talking to girls.

In fact, you should try talking to girls before going to six flags. And probably after, too.

Practice makes perfect.

Actually I hate that saying. Here's a new saying: Confidence comes from experience.

So go experience. Have fun.
 

AlexLefty

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LearningSlowly said:
Here's a new saying: Confidence comes from experience.

So go experience. Have fun.
You sir, are a genius!
 

Limmy

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confidence comes from experience ? so it would be safe to assume bad experiences like getting turned off by a girl gives you more insurance ? hmmm
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alxrose04

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Heck yea it's great idea! It your practice playground. There are so many opportunities, after a while it's going to be hard to get reject because you've practice so many times. And what will that bring? EXPERIENCE!!!!! Experience and the knowledge that "Hey, I've been here before. I've experienced the good and the bad and it's as bad as I thought. It's all good baby!"
 
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