"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Game Plan for New Home

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Last month, my water & waste bill was $215. That week, the city neglected to pick up my garbage. This is not the first time it's happened. I have to say that I'm fvcking tired of being tied to the city's utilities and services. It seems that the more I pay, the worse the services get.

About a year ago, I watched a documentary on Earthships. For a summary, they're completely self-sustaining buildings. They collect water and power for your use, and you don't pay anybody 5hit for it. Your only costs are basically propane for cooking, and perhaps replacing your batteries every few years.

Here's a brief video about one.

I wish I was 15 years younger. I would've planned my life completely different to acquire one of these. But there's no time like the present to plan on acquiring one of these and saying FVCK YOU to the utility system that I've been tied to.

I'm eventually going to own my parents' house when they're too old or dead to live in it anymore. That is going to be the key to getting this whole thing started. I can either use that house as a second income to help pay for building my new home, or sell it to pay a huge chunk. I also have my own home which has gone up in value since I purchased it 10 years ago.

I think what I'd like to do is get one to live in now, and then build another one somewhere warmer when I retire. I'd relocate to a warmer place right now, but I love my job too much to do so. I have no desire to relocate and risk losing a job that I absolutely love which pays pretty well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I watched the video. Those are cool as hell. I've seen some of the Alaska shows where people live off grid like this. What I have wondered is, are they really able to sustain enough solar power and rain water to make this comfortable? I've never had solar power. I've had wells that have dried up, but always been within 10 miles of the nearest town where I could go get more water to replenish the well. People far out yonder aren't going to have that choice. Assuming you had enough to sustain yourself out there, I think this would be some really awesome living.
 

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Someone built one of these houses here, just a 10 minute drive outside the city. I'm thinking about contacting them and getting some ideas and information from them, and maybe even a tour. They apparently built the house themselves which took two years.
 
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