"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Game Killers

Snow Plowman

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For the past 6 months I've learned a whole lot on what have killed my sets and what could kill sets. These are things you should always try not to do because you will end up losing attraction.

1. Being nervous - You know Approach Aniexty when your shaking and stuttering. Your eye contact sucks, voice sucks, etc.

2. Being needy - Always trying too hard for rapport

3. Qualifying yourself and trying to impress

4. Bragging

5. Supplication - If your doing things that you wouldn't do for your friends, your just doing it to this girl because she is hot and you want something...then your supplicating.

So longs you don't do stuff like this then what you say won't affect your game too much. But if you do any of these 5 you can quickly kill a set like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Roly

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Good observations

These are very good observations and they are all right. You just found the cause and the disease, now you need to find the cure.
 

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#3 is the worst for me personally. I've been consciously stopping that because honestly, most girls don't want to hear about that.
 
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