"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Game Killers

Snow Plowman

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For the past 6 months I've learned a whole lot on what have killed my sets and what could kill sets. These are things you should always try not to do because you will end up losing attraction.

1. Being nervous - You know Approach Aniexty when your shaking and stuttering. Your eye contact sucks, voice sucks, etc.

2. Being needy - Always trying too hard for rapport

3. Qualifying yourself and trying to impress

4. Bragging

5. Supplication - If your doing things that you wouldn't do for your friends, your just doing it to this girl because she is hot and you want something...then your supplicating.

So longs you don't do stuff like this then what you say won't affect your game too much. But if you do any of these 5 you can quickly kill a set like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Roly

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Good observations

These are very good observations and they are all right. You just found the cause and the disease, now you need to find the cure.
 

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#3 is the worst for me personally. I've been consciously stopping that because honestly, most girls don't want to hear about that.
 
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