Game is for women

[kavi]

u need money/status, a nicer car, better style/clothes, better social circle with high value men that like you and to hit the gym

I dunno man, this money/status thing without game and understanding of women is dangerous. you could waste your life and end up divorced at 50 with nothing.

If she likes you for those material/status things I wudnt feel too comfortable. She just wants a 'high value guy' to boost her ego and her vision of herself, unfortunately once you are no longer needed you will be discarded with no mercy or second thought.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Great post @SmoothSmooth.
All these theatrics and routines use up a lot of energy.

Do men on a mission, say climbing a mountain have time for such trivialities?

Are CEOs of fortune 500s, learning stupid "comebacks" to appear cool?

Are the best artists in world, obsessed with their craft expending hours everyday on how to get laid?

Granted folks might not be any of the above, but having a mindset of a king has a self fulfilling prophecy and it reflects in our body language and conversation.

Keeping ROI high is key.

I liked the bit where you talked about indifference.

As @DEEZEDBRAH says step up or step aside, keep things clear, direct and go for what you want.

I'm here moving towards my goals in life. Keeping my health, wealth and skills in check so I can have the freedom I want

Wish more folks post useful stuff like this on the boards.

I've beat to death the importance of health and testosterone like some broken record. Health is everything. I've called the game sport. You got to make it fun. Must find the humor in it. Approaching is like pulling teeth for most fellas. Imagine Jordan, Gretzky, Messi, Ali, etc approached their sport that way?

@darksprezzatura big ups to you focus that which truly matters. Hope gains, lifts, diet, lifestyle, and new job is all going well. Getting girls is great. Purpose is king. Been guilty of putting the cart before the horse.

 

[Mike32ct]

Awesome thread. A lot to digest there.

I’ve noted this before and will again…It’s very curious/telling that women generally don’t recommend “game” to guys. And it’s not because they don’t want you to “figure them out” so you gain an advantage.

Even legit female friends (not friendzone) who are genuinely trying to help you typically won’t suggest that you “learn game.”

Because they know the truth about it.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

game and manipulation is the realm of female behaviour

it’s the same type of thing as filters and makeup… women use it to enhance their perceived value, but men shouldn’t do the same thing

same with late replies, acting flirty, attempting to ‘seduce’ etc these things don’t make u look masculine. Women have seen it all before because they invented it! U stand out by being normal and straightforward in your dealings

this will drive her crazy and she’ll work hard to figure what makes you so calm and normal around her (most guys treat her like she is ‘high status’ …trying to game her signals you want her bad)

in this era of social media deception, gender politics and dating apps a lot of women are completely disillusioned with dating and all the games. they are low-key desperate to just get a bit of normality and security from men.