"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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Game Intruders: My Own Friends!

slickaz

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Ok so i hang out with a bunch of cool dudes.
i mean they are dudes that i get along with really well.

Theres 5 of us that are the tight group in total, 2 of whom are a part of a successful rap band with multiple CDs etc..

Ive been rolling with them for ages now and have noticed one thing.

The rappers get attention from gold diggers and celebrity chics, but they are all hott chics. so they dont need to throw game at girls.

The other 2 dudes "act" like they are the 5h1t. before we go out we kick at my place and drink a little and you see them getting hypped talking about going and bring ass home...its funny to see.

When it comes time to actually go out and talk to the girls and approach them these 2 are the worst! idiots you could ask for.

EVERYTIME! i cold approach a girl, they have always barged into the conversation, or stood really close to me trying to butt in and take the girl because ive opened her up.
So i introduce them to the girl, and they dont say anything.
I get a number from her or whatever and move back to them, and then theyll say smtn really stupid like "Oh shes hott, but shes such a h03, its not just you shes hittin on, everyguy here has had a piece"...and this is the first time they are seeing this girl ever! passing comments.

So ok, i went to the mall yesterday with one of the dudes, i needed shoes, he needed a T.
i split from him at the shop because i saw this girl i wanted to talk to..i started talking and next thing you know this dude is standing right behind me looking at the chic..i didnt notice until she seemed uncomfy looking behind me..so i turned around like yo! did u get yo T?..and he tried to get me to introduce the girl, which i did not do this time i knew he'd mess it up for me..anyway later on..again the same hating towards another male that actually has the balls to go up and speak to a hott girl..like "Oh she looks like a hoe, f*k dat b!tch every dudes had a piece" or just nonsense talk.
Everytime we go out, i venture and i bring back girls to introduce, and these pu55!es dont actually say anything..but when its just us, its such bull**** talk!

PLEASE TELL ME:
How do you guys deal with this bullsh1t, i mean these guys are my friends i dont want to ditch them..but this is affecting my game!...
 

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Get Some New Friends , Bro .
These Guys Are sabotageing your game .
 

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Maybe try to isolate the girl you are gaming in an area where your friends aren't liable to see you. They're just jealous that you have the balls to approach and they don't. Hence why they call the girl a "ho" etc.
 

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haha thanks guys..yeh i feel like im the one doing all the work and these dudes is just hating on every girl i talk to or girls that approach me.

last night we were at a friends shop party that i was hosting so i invited these dudes along..these guys were just standing around while the 2 rapper dudes were getting hit on crazy by some girls.

i dont usually like to stand around and play fool so i went up and got myself a drink came back and on the way back these 2 brunnetes HB8s looked and smiled, i leaned to the one i preferred and said hi, my name is Slick, and she gave me her name, i said hope you're having a good night im holding someones drink ill pass it over to them and come back <the drink cup was full and was basically dripping everywhere, i didnt want to lose chance by spilling alco on her dress>
i walked away to these dudes and handed them over the drink, turn around and the two girls had actually followed me to my friends..i was surprised, i smiled at em and the one i spoke to leans forward and LOUDLY says you're very handsome..i like your dress sense..now i dont usually get that too much, like maybe once or twice every fortnight i go out because one time i dress casual and the next i dress smart cass..i leaned over and said thank you you ladies have very elegant attires, or smtn classy like that..and they giggled and blushed..i spoke to em etc etc.

i turn around and these dudes are like "Wow! what a bunch of h03s! bloody annoying females, yeh i know you want this but you cant have it...man! i wanna slap that b!tch" smtn allong the lines of that kinda attitude..at that point i basically just said fvk this im going solo..so i walked around and thats when i met all the other girls serving finger foods and the bartender..


but im just wondering, has anyone here ever had that? what do you do? i mean im good friends with them but when it comes to girls these guys are all talk and no show..it annoys me because i dont wanna confront em about it and hurt feelings.

PS: as far as ive known them ive never seen them get ass.ever!...i know one of them had an LTR for 2 years but she dumped him after he found out she had 3 abortions from other guys while they were LTR. and i believe the last guy she cheated with flew her out the country to Hong Kong....and the other guy..well no he has most certainly never gotten 4ss i placed a girl on his lap 1 night for him to chat up..she sat for about 3 minutes, he was dumbstruck, she got mad at me and bounced...since then ive never tried helping either of them other than just the intro's
 
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