Game for below average guys

[Capt.America]

we need to to have a thread about game for the gujys who aren't so good looking. im sure some of the theories like indifference and cold approaching don't work for the average and below guys like they do for the good looking guys.so wat can we do and some tips for us aside from getting money and status. wat are stuff we can do now to get that broad that works at our favorite store, etc. we need a thread on this

 

[Serenity]

As I understand it you would use the same "game" as good looking guys. Act like you are the fvcking boss!

You need to think you are good looking without a single doubt in your mind. Improve your look until you are happy with it, if there is something unchangeable don't care about it.

In short read the DJ Bible. This is about how you view yourself and not what techniques you can pull off just to get a woman. It might be hard, but it's worth it.

 

[TheGambino]

work hard, go to the gym, get a good haircut, get some stylish clothes, look best.
and like grewd said dont ever doubt your looks, approach a girl like your happy with yourself and be confident when you speak.
you also have to be different so try to be charming, that she will remember you after you left.

approach, impress, charm, get her number and dissapear, then DON't be needy and be very patient in your game

 

[Mike32ct]

Do what you can about your looks as noted above.

Then have a VERY, VERY thick skin. Keep going like the T e r mi n ator. I'm not saying 20 approaches in the same venue. Take breaks and don't over-sarge any given place. That's creepy.

In other words, persistent, but not annoying lol. Focus first on the girl that your gut tells you is the most likely to be receptive to you.

Keep a positive attitude, and don't let the bishes make you feel bad about yourself.

 

[zekko]

In short read the DJ Bible. This is about how you view yourself and not what techniques you can pull off just to get a woman. It might be hard, but it's worth it.

It should be noted, however, that Pook wrote a good deal of the DJ Bible. And he was tall and good looking (according to him, anyway).

I agree with Mike, the less attractive you are, the thicker your skin is going to have to be. Be relentlessly positive.

 

[youngmack]

I think you should do more social circle game then approaching. Its more effective for not so good looking guys . Like the others said you got to have a thick skin(I don't know how you get that though) if you wanna cold approach.

 

[foreverAFC]

there are some ugly guys out there who get decent looking chicks, we see them all the time, so it is possible, how they do it i have no clue, i think for them its more right time right place more than anything else

i remember me and my friend were stopped at the light one time, and we see this guy that looks even grosser and creepier than comedian doug benson, and he was holding hands with a girl that was an 8 or a 9, my friend actually yelled out in anger over how hot the girl was and how disgusting the guy was, we were both in disbelief

now if you are an ugly guy who just cant make yourself attractive to women no matter what you try, then you need to be honest with yourself and realize that, and then you need to realize that its not the end of the world and that you can still have a lot of fun, you may just have to live your life a bit differently than the normal average guy, you need to live all out and larger than life, you need to life that hardcore chris farley/john belushi/artie lange type lifestyle if you know what i mean, you need to learn how to get your fun from things like prostitution, gambling, porn, massages, substance abuse etc.....yeah ok you may look like george costanza and women are not receptive to you, but you can still make money, book trips to vegas, get drunk and snort coke, and fck hookers up the ass as hard as you want upstairs in your suite, its way better than sitting around not having fun and driving yourself crazy like that guy george sodini who shot up that gym class

 

[corrector]

I think you should do more social circle game then approaching. Its more effective for not so good looking guys . Like the others said you got to have a thick skin(I don't know how you get that though) if you wanna cold approach.

Social circle game is worst than cold approaching. First of all, you are going to get rejected on a social circle. Either you get blown off as people in the group are polite with you but don't want to get involved, or they just do not take you on. In turn you get known as a reject within that social circle. Instead, if there is a good looking guy that's charasmatic then that's even worst as you'll see he gets all the attention, you get blown-off or ignored and you feel like sh1t. Then you say, wow, some guys have all the luck when it comes to girls while you are sol most, if not all of the time.

On cold approach if the approach doesn't work out, you'll never see the girl again. It doesn't have that element that you can make your well toxic because it's a running stream as opposed to a well. Most of the worst social disasters were in social circles. They tend to form cliques within the socials which leave you out, or more attractive guys tend to monopolize things and girls are only polite with you.

 

[Mike32ct]

there are some ugly guys out there who get decent looking chicks, we see them all the time, so it is possible, how they do it i have no clue, i think for them its more right time right place more than anything else

Yes, right place and right time is very powerful. I'm guessing it is social circle many of those times, but yes, absolutely.

i remember me and my friend were stopped at the light one time, and we see this guy that looks even grosser and creepier than comedian doug benson, and he was holding hands with a girl that was an 8 or a 9, my friend actually yelled out in anger over how hot the girl was and how disgusting the guy was, we were both in disbelief

Haha

now if you are an ugly guy who just cant make yourself attractive to women no matter what you try, then you need to be honest with yourself and realize that, and then you need to realize that its not the end of the world and that you can still have a lot of fun, you may just have to live your life a bit differently than the normal average guy, you need to live all out and larger than life, you need to life that hardcore chris farley/john belushi/artie lange type lifestyle if you know what i mean, you need to learn how to get your fun from things like prostitution, gambling, porn, massages, substance abuse etc.....yeah ok you may look like george costanza and women are not receptive to you, but you can still make money, book trips to vegas, get drunk and snort coke, and fck hookers up the ass as hard as you want upstairs in your suite, its way better than sitting around not having fun and driving yourself crazy like that guy george sodini who shot up that gym class

ForeverAFC:

That's a great angle. If you aren't hot, have some fun anyway. You can be a free spirited "lone wolf" of sorts. I do this on a much smaller scale while still keeping a decent paying job.

Youngmack:

I agree with you that social circle is way better for a guy without the looks. Cold approaching is tough, no doubt. But a thick skin is needed no matter what. You might not get the harsh rejections in social circle that you would get in the club, but you will still get some (soft) rejections in the form of being left of out the "good looking clique" or being ignored at parties, etc.

I don't know exactly how to tell you to get a "thick skin" other than let it build over time via many interactions. I have improved in that area, but it's an ongoing challenge.

Zekko:

Exactly. The reason I emphasize "thick skin" is because some guys don't realize how tough it is out there. They think, "Well, I'm not UGLY. I'm average/ok/decent looking, so it can't be that bad." Wrong. Even an ok looking guy has to deal with plenty of rejections, letdowns, etc.

All:

None of this intended to be negative or discouraging. Just be aware of it; that's all.

 

[corrector]

now if you are an ugly guy who just cant make yourself attractive to women no matter what you try, then you need to be honest with yourself and realize that, and then you need to realize that its not the end of the world and that you can still have a lot of fun, you may just have to live your life a bit differently than the normal average guy, you need to live all out and larger than life, you need to life that hardcore chris farley/john belushi/artie lange type lifestyle if you know what i mean, you need to learn how to get your fun from things like prostitution, gambling, porn, massages, substance abuse etc.....yeah ok you may look like george costanza and women are not receptive to you, but you can still make money, book trips to vegas, get drunk and snort coke, and fck hookers up the ass as hard as you want upstairs in your suite, its way better than sitting around not having fun and driving yourself crazy like that guy george sodini who shot up that gym class

Suppose you are ugly and don't make allot of money, then what? Doesn't uglier guys have a more difficult time making money? What kind of solution is that. Most guys are already fapping to porn on here, how are you going to say well have fun doing that while other guys are pulling real girls, having allot of fun, or getting relationships with nice girls.

There is nothing fun about spending money on drugs, advising people to spend it on hookers since they can't get real girls, and then saying it's better than buying a gun and shooting people or committing suicide.

For the record, I agree with what you say because I subscribe to that idea. I just don't agree with the drugs, and Las Vagas part. I'd say go to Russia and or find a foreign bride, or go and get cheap escorts in a third world country rather than going to Las Vegas. But only like if you get rejected 1000 times straight on cold approaches. Put up some absurd challenges before allowing that sort of stuff so it can motivate you to put in some effort you know will end mostly in rejection. Otherwise that advice has no constructive merit.

A "last resort", be it porn with a good sex-toy, a prostitute, a sex-tour vacation, or looking for a foreign bride, should all be last resorts, not first resorts, or not spoilers so you don't have to do anything. The "last resort" means that you'll make it happen that way at the end of the day -- but you still have to earn it by proving you can handle 1000 rejections, etc... then you do something like that and loop again.

Chances are, you may not even get 1000 rejections. You may get a girfriend before you get anywhere near 1000 or an ONS.

 

[Serenity]

I don't assume OP is right in judging himself as below average. Don't look at yourself that way. Fix what you can and assume you look fvcking hot. Give it a try and if you fail you learn from it and try harder the next time.

Even I looked myself in the mirror and viewed myself as ugly. I got a haircut and started styling my hair every day. Started looking myself in the mirror again, but this time I convinced myself that I was hot. Had my first date ever, no interest, improved my game and fvcked the next one the day I met her.

 

[Jair213]

I'm ma be real with you bro.
I know you want to get the hot girls bro.
But thing is you need to get with girls that are receptive to you. Idk how
Ugly you are but you need get girls around your looks level.

I have a friend that's a 6 and dude is dating a 9. I ask
Him how he landed that chick. He said
''Simply fvk her like it was your last time fvcking''

Improve your self. Your wardrobe. Hit the gym.
Go to school. Improve your life in every way possible.

My friends in los Angeles if they don't land anything throughout
The night they resort to 5's and some fattys but as a last resort though and
They Are not ugly at all. But then again they have poor game too but not ugly.

Read up on iner game and build your foundation from there.

 

[jay07]

The day you look in the mirror and say to yourself, "im better looking than every guy i know" you will land a hottie.

For me, it was hitting the gym consistantly for 3 years. That and clearing the acne with an exfoliator. Heh.

 

[evan12]

Average and below average guys have to use social circle , so women will have the time to look at them as humen and not only their appearance.
join some classes , college, or increase your friends circle. and that should help . most of social guys regardless of how they look end up with a gf or wife .

 

[Stagger Lee]

Average and below average guys have to use social circle , so women will have the time to look at them as humen and not only their appearance.
join some classes , college, or increase your friends circle. and that should help . most of social guys regardless of how they look end up with a gf or wife .

When I was younger and pursuing younger girls, sometimes if I pursued one girl she would turn me down, but would throw me her female friend who seemed eager. She might not have been as attractive as the girl I originally pursued. But I was pre-approved and certified by her friend and she was good to go. I didn't really go for it. Or maybe I had a male friend who had a GF and sometimes his GF would have a female friend that she'd match you up. Sometimes the guy friend would maybe on a drunken night suggest you get in his GF bed .

I don't know how much this still applies nowadays and with guys outside their 30's. Social circles don't work for me today and at my age.

 

[youngmack]

I like to look at things realistically, and realistically speaking no matter how hot you think you are, you won't attract the girls you want who don't find you attractive. Period. Its good to think highly of yourself but your opinion of yourself may not always be the same as others.

So op your best bet is social circle game. We gotta be realistic here. If you're ugly you're ugly. There is no "I think im hot so all other girls are gonna think I'm hot too." Especially with how shallow these young h0es are these days, believing you look good isn't going to cut it. If you are ugly or average you just have to accept it and live with it and accept that you might not be able to get girls you want. But on the good side women is not what life is about.

 

[Jair213]

I like to look at things realistically, and realistically speaking no matter how hot you think you are, you won't attract the girls you want who don't find you attractive. Period. Its good to think highly of yourself but your opinion of yourself may not always be the same as others.

So op your best bet is social circle game. We gotta be realistic here. If you're ugly you're ugly. There is no "I think im hot so all other girls are gonna think I'm hot too." Especially with how shallow these young h0es are these days, believing you look good isn't going to cut it. If you are ugly or average you just have to accept it and live with it and accept that you might not be able to get girls you want. But on the good side women is not what life is about.

Good stuff

 

[Mike32ct]

I like to look at things realistically, and realistically speaking no matter how hot you think you are, you won't attract the girls you want who don't find you attractive. Period. Its good to think highly of yourself but your opinion of yourself may not always be the same as others.

So op your best bet is social circle game. We gotta be realistic here. If you're ugly you're ugly. There is no "I think im hot so all other girls are gonna think I'm hot too." Especially with how shallow these young h0es are these days, believing you look good isn't going to cut it. If you are ugly or average you just have to accept it and live with it and accept that you might not be able to get girls you want. But on the good side women is not what life is about.

Yup. Exactly.

 

[Capt.America]

dam u guys are right. I gotta accept how i look nd stop going 4 the sexy girls . dam i hate my parents 4 cursing me wit these below average looks

 

[Zarky]

Everybody's got good points and bad points. Figure out your good points and emphasize them. Figure out your bad points and cover them up as best you can.

I've seen ugly dudes pull girls with humor.