"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Game During a Job Interview

spinaroonie

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I'm recently out of school and have been interviewing with several companies. Lately I've noticed that when I'm interviewing for a job, young female interviewers will often display subtle IOIs during the course of the interview. (stroking hair, wrist scratching, lip licking etc.) Whether conscious or not, there could be some subtle subconscious attraction there.

Think about it - A job interview is just one long DHV. You've got your best suit on. You're impeccably groomed. You're one-on-one and holding eye contact the entire time. If the guy is particularly young, handsome, dapper, articulate, and doing a good job selling himself, the girl can't help but feel the gina tingling.

While it's the older dudes that usually make the final call, younger female employees do have sway in hiring decisions. Basically she's picturing seeing you working alongside her Monday-Friday, 9 to 5. Why wouldn't she want a suave guy?

While DJ skills are mostly used in pick-up, I'm thinking it could have very useful applications in other contexts. Question for the DJs - have you had success applying your DJ skills, or 'gaming' your way through a job interview?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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Yes, I walk in with a fuzzy hat and tell them I saw two chicks fighting outside. Then, I do some palm reading, and go for the makeout. I'll call her my bratty little sister a few times, and make her buy me a drink. After I do some push-pull, I'll throw her over my shoulder and go for the bathroom pull. I'll then whisper in her ear "So what kind of JOB are you going to give me?"

just kidding, I couldnt resist. yes, many of the same principles apply. confidence, poise, and experience.
 

r0cky

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I always wondered if in the history of pick up, anyone has been able to seduce a job interviewer. That would be quite the feat.
 

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horaholic said:
Yes, I walk in with a fuzzy hat and tell them I saw two chicks fighting outside. Then, I do some palm reading, and go for the makeout. I'll call her my bratty little sister a few times, and make her buy me a drink. After I do some push-pull, I'll throw her over my shoulder and go for the bathroom pull. I'll then whisper in her ear "So what kind of JOB are you going to give me?"

just kidding, I couldnt resist. yes, many of the same principles apply. confidence, poise, and experience.
Holy **** bro that was one of the most funniest post I've heard in a while everything from first the hat to the palm reading and to the makeout and when you said what kind of job are you going to give me ahahahahaha pua have more of a chance to be chosen for the job if they subtly apply their calibrated and heightened keen social awareness at the interview
 
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