"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Game and feminism?

Crazystarf

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Wanted to ask this for a while, but never got around to it.

Basically, I know a person who claims to be "feminist", and yet he seems to be able to apply everything that is mentioned in the game like nobody's business. He may just be an attention ***** (due to his ability to wear suits and expensive brand-name clothing to college classes every day), but let's get to the main question.

Can a man be inherently be feminist and still apply methods regarding the game? Or is he lying about being feminist in order to deceive others around him?

Serious question here not trolling btw.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Darth

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Feminism is a disease. I can't wait until my generation gets into power and totally throws it out of our culture.
 

SamTheHobit

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Darth said:
Feminism is a disease. I can't wait until my generation gets into power and totally throws it out of our culture.
Hahaha this is coolest thing I've read In days.
 

VladPatton

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What I've come to conclude is that most people usually bullʂhit their way through life to make a certain impression of themselves. This includes their friends, the people they wanna bang, their co-workers, business partners, and themselves as well. So don't take to heart what people appear to be at face value, for it is not always so.

The guy who swears he is a feminists with game is a walking contradiction who is afraid to be a real man with genuine thoughts and ideas. By stating he is a feminist, he can roll back into White Knight Mode whenever applicable, as well as bump up to Macho Man Mode when surrounded by other men. How convenient. Pick a side, douche.

As for people with expensive clothes, cars, and houses; I'd love to see their credit card bills. More bullʂhit to put up a front. Yeah, you have on $500 jeans while your Visa bill is $25,000 past due. Nice impression, enjoy your cute jeans you fake bastard! lol This practice is rampant everywhere, so beware, nothing is what it seems at first impression.
 

evan12

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Not really, if you are feminist that mean you don't think you have to be a leader or a dominant , and this is two critical values women attached to them instinctly .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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