"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Game... A reaction to changing gender dynamics?

Asmodeus

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A bit of a meditation on things… And I think it can open some interesting discussion. Of course we all know that there has been a drastic shift in the gender roles of women. This is in most part to the feminist movement, but there are some other external factors too. Because of this we have seen the role of women changed significantly. Women started taking on roles that men traditionally did. Instead of being a family caregiver they became career women. This changed things greatly as it put women on an equal economic status females have even more power in mate selection than ever before. Not only that but it has raised the bar for dating/mating… Women all naturally seek a man who has a higher standing than they do. Thus, when the standing of women are raised… And when the standing of men is at a standstill it creates a situation where the average man cannot meet the standards of the average woman. Thus, this explains the increasing necessity of “game” and all these DJ tactics which are professed on this board… These tactics are all attempts to raise ones perceived social standing in the eyes of females. As the bar on men been effectively raised one needs raise oneself in order to meet this bar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mv.89

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A bit of a meditation on things… And I think it can open some interesting discussion. Of course we all know that there has been a drastic shift in the gender roles of women. This is in most part to the feminist movement, but there are some other external factors too. Because of this we have seen the role of women changed significantly. Women started taking on roles that men traditionally did. Instead of being a family caregiver they became career women. This changed things greatly as it put women on an equal economic status females have even more power in mate selection than ever before. Not only that but it has raised the bar for dating/mating… Women all naturally seek a man who has a higher standing than they do. Thus, when the standing of women are raised… And when the standing of men is at a standstill it creates a situation where the average man cannot meet the standards of the average woman. Thus, this explains the increasing necessity of “game” and all these DJ tactics which are professed on this board… These tactics are all attempts to raise ones perceived social standing in the eyes of females. As the bar on men been effectively raised one needs raise oneself in order to meet this bar.
Raise the actual value not the perceived value. What happens when the curtains fall and show is over?
Let's say a terrible accident happens and your d!ck gets cut off (I don't wish this upon you-just hypothetical) - would you stop living and enjoying life? at first there will be a lot of pain and so forth but time heals everything and your "Actual" value will be with you during that time as well whereas perceived value would've vanished cause you weren't able to maintain it during the time of crisis.
So fvck what they think- Work on yourself. Bro- if your entire life purpose is to do one thing or another to make sure you get women then you are missing out on life.

Also -with everything you talked about keep in mind- the mentality hasn't changed- they are still the same. Just cause one gets a highly paid job doesn't mean they won't submit to superior personality . Applies to men or women. An example would be- regardless of how much you earn -when we see pet of our liking -we become softer. Same is with humans interacting with others. High pay allows materialistic superiority but it doesn't do jack sh!T towards personality. I used the word "personality" because at the end of the day that's what makes or breaks people. If a certain type of guy made a women purr before her job it'll still be the case after the job. She might think more rationally about long-term but the inherit nature usually dominates.
 
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