"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino

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I went to the gym this afternoon since weeks. Last year my body fat was around 12% and I worked out 5 times a week including strict diet.

At the moment due work and lazyness I gained much body fat until around 24% so thats bad.

From today on 16-02-2015:

Strict diet
No bread, no cheese, no sugar etc.

Eating 8 times a day small portions with loads of protein

Going to train 2 hours a day with a split schedule and some cardio.

I want to reach 12% body fat in 3 months.

At the moment 24% body fat 38% muscles.

Work out, cutting off smoking and eating clean are the goals
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why are you eating 8 small portions?
 

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Have you heard of high intensity interval training? Its suppose to be very effective at trimming body fat quickly and effectively. Also I would increase your intake of steamed broccoli, spinach, and any other green leafy vegetables that you can, boiled or steamed no oil etc. The nutrient condesne content of this foods will speed up the process. If this stuff helps you, let me know.
 

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AttackFormation said:
Why are you eating 8 small portions?
To burn more. Small portions and eat 8 times because youll keep the intensity of burning calories on top. Youll system will be working all day so youll burn more fat and your muscles will take protein pretty much all day. Your body can take up to 25grams of protein every 2hours more protein will turn into fat. So take those 25 grams of protein every 2 hours!
 

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TheGambino said:
To burn more. Small portions and eat 8 times because youll keep the intensity of burning calories on top. Youll system will be working all day so youll burn more fat and your muscles will take protein pretty much all day. Your body can take up to 25grams of protein every 2hours more protein will turn into fat. So take those 25 grams of protein every 2 hours!
Gonna try to clear out the ignorance in this reasoning so you don't waste your time with a plan like that... I don't blame you because this idea is a pretty popular fallacy and I assume you're just trying to optimise your metabolism, not spread misinformation.

1) How can the body metabolize the food into fat if it's not digesting it ("working all day" as you put it)? if it's digesting it, why would it turn it into fat unless it already has more protein than it needs? you don't just instantly digest everything you eat, especially not protein because it takes longer to break down. Your body doesn't just "cr@p out" food that isn't digested properly either unless your metabolism is malfunctioning - the body is intelligent and has signal systems, it's not stupid. All you're really doing by eating really small portions really often is circumventing the purpose of your stomach which is to hold and periodically release food into your intestines. At the end of the day if you're on a calorie deficit or not is what's going to determine fat loss if you actually look at how the body functions, not meal timing.

2) The body can temporarily store protein for up to around 24 hours.

3) There is no universal 25 grams per 2 hours limit to protein absorption, this suggestion is particularily senseless when it further adds that adding more protein than that will turn into fat. You don't even have to be educated in metabolism to see the fallacy there, because it cannot turn to fat unless it has been metabolized into fat ie. been digested!

4) You can look up both anecdotal reports and actual studies on diets like intermittent fasting. I mention it because it directly disproves the idea that the body can only absorb so much protein in one meal and it indirectly (because you would have to compare rates of fat loss across diets) disproves the idea that the body stores more fat if you eat bigger portions fewer times per day.

5) You really just have to use (un)common sense to disprove this "many small meals" fad/scam. Just think about the sense it doesn't make.

Sources: http://www.muscleforlife.com/the-tr...often-you-should-eat-protein-to-build-muscle/
http://www.nap.edu/openbook.php?record_id=10490&page=589
http://www.leangains.com/2010/10/top-ten-fasting-myths-debunked.html
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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