"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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PeterCrouch

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So lately ive been chatting with this gal from college who has a bf, she got my number of a mutual friend, and shes flirted with me, but always stopped saying things like "my bf wouldnt be too happy about that" (but alot later in the convo than expected)

I Asked her to help me out at a faire, she said it sounded fun but she wouldnt be able to get there so fair enough i thought, then i said u should come meet me in town but she said its too hot for town and she has no money, so i went for a last chance wanna come see a movie question, she said she would but couldnt coz she was away for the weekend, so i thought ok ill leave it, next day she says to me "so when do ya wanna go to the cinema" i said i had to go but tuesday im available and told her to text me that night, she did but she said "do ya really think we would have enough to talk about if we went togetha?" i said "well thats why we gotta go togetha, to get to know each other" then i said if you dont wanna go then just say she said yeh i do wanna go ill let you know tomorrow if i can go coz i maybe working!

Anyway today we just had a chat and she said "im really sorry but im working tuesday and i dont think my bf would be happy about me going to the cinema with you"

I said no worrys im busy tuesday anyway (lie) then i said it was a bit cheeky of me asking lol

So what do you guys think? She seems like she wants to hang out with me but her bf is proving a stumbling block!

Now i know before anyone says it, i shouldnt be messing with a gal with bf so dont start rambling about that!

The Shezzler has been helping me out with this gal alot! Thanks Mate!

Cheers! for any other advice!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you're chasing a no go pal. told you it was all games. ;]

find another girl like i told you to! she isnt the only one!

"im really sorry but im working tuesday and i dont think my bf would be happy about me going to the cinema with you"

this is enough to let you know she doesn't wanna go through with it. leave it pal. trust me. stop chasing this girl.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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Firs of all, tell her that you will treat her nice and she'd be better off to be your girlfriend than that other guy.

Then you make sure you send her flowers and a love card. Tell her that you really like her and that you will treat her like a queen and will never do anything to upset her or make her cry.

Then tell her that she shouldn't be playing games with you. Ask her why is she making you suffer by bringing up thing you two can do together and then mentioning how her boyfriend wouldn't like it.

Tell her you will pay for the movies, diner, everything and that her boyfriend doesn't need to know about it. Then tell her you understand and that if she ever needs someone to listen to her problems and issues with her man, you will be there for her to listen to and her personal Cotex.
 
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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Firs of all, tell her that you will treat her nice and she'd be better off to be your girlfriend than that other guy.

Then you make sure you send her flowers and a love card. Tell her that you really like her and that you will treat her like a queen and will never do anything to upset her or make her cry.

Then tell her that she shouldn't be playing games with you. Ask her why is she making you suffer by bringing up thing you two can do together and then mentioning how her boyfriend wouldn't like it.

Tell her you will pay for the movies, diner, everything and that her boyfriend doesn't need to know about it. Then tell her you understand and that if she ever needs someone to listen to her problems and issues with her man, you will be there for her to listen to and her personal Cotex.
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Do i have too?
 
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You don't want to hear it but, next her!

There's too many single girls in this world to be targeting one's with boyfirends, even if she was interested in you it's still too much hassle.

Just forget about it.

G-man
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Firs of all, tell her that you will treat her nice and she'd be better off to be your girlfriend than that other guy.

Then you make sure you send her flowers and a love card. Tell her that you really like her and that you will treat her like a queen and will never do anything to upset her or make her cry.

Then tell her that she shouldn't be playing games with you. Ask her why is she making you suffer by bringing up thing you two can do together and then mentioning how her boyfriend wouldn't like it.

Tell her you will pay for the movies, diner, everything and that her boyfriend doesn't need to know about it. Then tell her you understand and that if she ever needs someone to listen to her problems and issues with her man, you will be there for her to listen to and her personal Cotex.
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Going by your # of posts I will assume this is a joke.
Use emoticons man:p
 
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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Firs of all, tell her that you will treat her nice and she'd be better off to be your girlfriend than that other guy.

Then you make sure you send her flowers and a love card. Tell her that you really like her and that you will treat her like a queen and will never do anything to upset her or make her cry.

Then tell her that she shouldn't be playing games with you. Ask her why is she making you suffer by bringing up thing you two can do together and then mentioning how her boyfriend wouldn't like it.

Tell her you will pay for the movies, diner, everything and that her boyfriend doesn't need to know about it. Then tell her you understand and that if she ever needs someone to listen to her problems and issues with her man, you will be there for her to listen to and her personal Cotex.
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:crackup:
 
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I get confused sometimes. I do hope that the masters on this site are jokers because some of their posts amaze me. Anyways, leave her alone, mov on adn find a chick that's single, why do you guys aim for the ones that are always taken?!?
 
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How fun can it be?

No kiss
No Fcuk

much more fun when u get at least 1 of the above...

Sort yourself out Peter

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's not interested and is using you for an ego stroke. Trust me. Forget her.

And look, don't fvcking text/IM, whatever the hell it is w/ chicks. Things can get fvcked up real easy. Your'e asking to get smoked doing that. Too many other people can get involved.
 
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I'm pretty much in your position right now, and today I said fvck it! It really makes no sense to waste time on a chick with a bf when you could be doing something with all of the other girls out there. Chasing girls that are not single is too much of a bother.

The girl I really like talks about her lover everytime we're chilling, and I'm like "am I supposed to give a fvck?" I mean... seriously. I'm not a DJ yet, but I wish to be, and that certainly won't happen waiting around for some chick to fall for me. Sh*t... that felt so good to get outta my system.. WHOOOOOOOOOOO! now to find some ladies worth spending my time on... ;) best of luck!
 
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