"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gaining Weight Is Hard Stuff

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Ive never really been a skinny guy, but here are my 2 cents on gaining weight:

Dont be preoccupied with "gaining weight" your goal should be to be able to increase your lifts. If you keep on increasing your lifts (and dont expect too fast increases) you WILL gain (muscle)weight. When I started working out I always thought I was hardly getting more muscular if at all and didnt really seem to gain weight etc. but I thought to myself as my lifts are increasing I must be doing something right...and I did...most ppl just expect to gain muscle mass way too fast, so better work on increasing your lifts and dont step on a scale more often than every few months.

If your lifts arent increasing reread livin larges last post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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