"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gaining weight because of job, what to do

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hi,

Ok, so Iam doing resistance training for almost 6 years now, therefore I am pretty experienced. Iam doing a low carb diet for 2 years now, to basically hold my weight stable, because I am a softgainer, so I got becareful.

My Problem:

since I started my jobtraining as a bookkeeper, I have not got so much movement as I have had before in my "unemployment time", sot herefore I gained 2 kg of weight, although I workout 3 times a week and go often for a walk in the night ( 1 hour just walk around in the street) to compensate my lack of movement.

It doesn't help:rolleyes:

So I also used ephedra, but it seems that my body got used to it, so it doesn't help either, besides, it is not possible anymore to get the good old Xenadrine RFA-1, which was just awesome.

so, I do not know how to prevent the weightgaining, any tips?

please help:eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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*puts on the WA voice*

-Green tea... lots
-protein/fat or protein/carb meals... no meals with carb/fat
-lots of protein per day
-eat every 2 hours
-no carbs after 5-6PM
-limit fats after 8ish or so PM
-low intensity cardio when waking up... 3-6 times a week.
-clean eating... most of the time.
 

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Less exercise? Eat less.
 

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-Green tea... lots --> tried it,worked in the past


-protein/fat or protein/carb meals... no meals with carb/fat-> never mix fat with carbs, if, then only in small amounts


-lots of protein per day --> thats in!

-eat every 2 hours --> not possible in my job!

no carbs after 5-6PM-->almost no carbs the whole day

-limit fats after 8ish or so PM -> will try that

-low intensity cardio when waking up... 3-6 times a week. --> not possible, work starts too early

-clean eating... most of the time. --> will eat poultry and fish, for the next couple of weeks+ salads

thanks so far, for your help:cheer:
 

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you cant because your work starts to early? I think thats more of a i dont want to because it means i have to get up even earlyer, maybe you already get up at 7 and it means you would have ot get up half an hour earlyer, but if you wanted, you could still do it! Dont dismiss the idea so quickly!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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buddy, i get up at 6:30 a.m. in the morning, which is f*ckin early.when should i get up? at 5 a.m.? come on, I am working 9h a day
 

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if you get up at 6:30, you could get up at 6 like 3 days a week and walk briskly for 30 mins...

as far as not eating every two hours?? why not? 9 hour day?? that's only 4 meals... - 1 for lunch. That gives you 3 left. you're required to have a break right??? that's another one... 2 left. Pop a couple protein shakes for those two... bring a little tupperware with flax oil or olive oil to toss in them to slow the digestion, and you're in.

That's probably one of the most necessary ones. Trust me, the metabolism needs to be taught to keep going, and to do that you need to keep it going .... all day.
 

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Originally posted by semag
if you get up at 6:30, you could get up at 6 like 3 days a week and walk briskly for 30 mins...

as far as not eating every two hours?? why not? 9 hour day?? that's only 4 meals... - 1 for lunch. That gives you 3 left. you're required to have a break right??? that's another one... 2 left. Pop a couple protein shakes for those two... bring a little tupperware with flax oil or olive oil to toss in them to slow the digestion, and you're in.

That's probably one of the most necessary ones. Trust me, the metabolism needs to be taught to keep going, and to do that you need to keep it going .... all day.
Yeah, this guy is totally right.

You NEED to eat more often to keep the weight down - your metabolism depends on it!

So, if you're just book keeping and you can have drinks (I'm pretty sure you can drink something during work) make smoothies, protein shakes, or anything of the like to help you.

Trust me, it will make all the difference.
 

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Originally posted by semag
*puts on the WA voice*

-Green tea... lots
-protein/fat or protein/carb meals... no meals with carb/fat
-lots of protein per day
-eat every 2 hours
-no carbs after 5-6PM
-limit fats after 8ish or so PM
-low intensity cardio when waking up... 3-6 times a week.
-clean eating... most of the time.
wtf doe sthat mean no carbs after 5-6 pm?
u think its gonna work some sort of magic?
 

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umm.... if you load up on carbs before bed, or have left over carbs in your body, the glycogen fills up, adn then the carbs don't get used, and converted over to fat when your metabolism slows down for the night... in general.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah i drink protein shakes at work, i make them with water instead of milk (cause of the carbs int he milk) and my shake got 1g of carbs per 30g powder
 

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why dont you cycle to work?
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Speed
hi,

Ok, so Iam doing resistance training for almost 6 years now, therefore I am pretty experienced. Iam doing a low carb diet for 2 years now, to basically hold my weight stable, because I am a softgainer, so I got becareful.

My Problem:

since I started my jobtraining as a bookkeeper, I have not got so much movement as I have had before in my "unemployment time", sot herefore I gained 2 kg of weight, although I workout 3 times a week and go often for a walk in the night ( 1 hour just walk around in the street) to compensate my lack of movement.
Adjustments to your diet can be made so that you won't gain weight, but I would suggest upping the intensity of your "walking" sessions. Why not try some walk-jog intervals instead of slow walking. This metabolism boost will improve your overall leanness and help with recovery from your weightlifting sessions. Then you can get a bit crazy if your diet and you won't notice as much weight gain.
 
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