"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it seems like in high schoool, one of the fastest ways to become well-known is to have girls talk about you in a sexual manner, for instance, there was that one study done that said that even guys who werent that attractive suddenly became pretty hot when other people said he was, if anyone remembers that?

well, friday night was homecoming, and i realized that theres very few guys from my age group / classes that dance, ie, less than 10?

i was thinking of this one girl i could definately get to talk to her friends about me and say i was a sexy passionate dancer or something, and i could just ask but that would never show results, whereas if i gave hersomething. i thought about money, which i realized i dont have.

next best thing-- i offer to kiss her or something of that sort, and in exchange she tells her friends or whoever asks and hopefully some who dont, that im a fantastic dancer, and i could rub a woman in all the right ways, or just tell her to say what turns women on

this girl is like, an HB5 or 6, and we have another dance (more important one) called hte winter formal, and thatsin about a month. girl has only kissed one guy before, so im sure she'd be up to it, in fact she thought about kissing me while we were dancing on friday night...

so guys, think it might be cool to try this? and think it might work?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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High school girls have ten things running through their head at once. From the fact taht teir using yesterdays bra to the fact that they forgot to brush one of their molars.

Chill.
 

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Eugh no! It's backhanded and mercenary and not in a good way.

A) This girl sounds like a beast and a *****.
B) You sound like a muppet.
C) The whole idea smacks of a guy who is thinking with his ****.

What the hell are you going to do when these girls think you can dance? If they ask you to, I bet you'll be too chicken to do it. Being unable to dance in public, what do you exactly expect to do with these other girls? You do realise that that will involve getting *hehe* naked, right?

Here's a better plan, sort out your confidence and looks, and, amazingly, learn to dance.

You obviously know what needs to get sorted out, just you're going about it in the most underhand filthy lying banal way.

Oh yeah, and my way doesn't involve licking the dog's slobbering maw. And I mean that in it's most literal sense :p .
 

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man you thought about paying her? this situation just spells disaster....the only way from something to really get around is for it to be true...

ohiofutballa:cool:
 

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Originally posted by ohiofutballa
man you thought about paying her? this situation just spells disaster....the only way from something to really get around is for it to be true...

ohiofutballa:cool:
lord hab mercy

hey gimme 10 bucks ill tell everyone u can dance

lmmfao:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You kiss that girl and they'll think there's something wrong with you that you can't do better.
 

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U watched American Pie too many times. If you wanna learn how to pick up, watch something like Rodger Dodger
 

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well i can actually dance, and i do. i danced alot at homecoming, im looking forward to the next dance :)

and also, it was like, just an idea that i got when i read about that thing where a girl will think a guy is much better looking if her friends do too. its the same concept i guess.
 
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