"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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confidence is a state people want to get and they think it's something where it has to be triggered like When EVERYTHINg is going your WAY and you're on a roll and the whole day seems clear and vivid. and THINGS have to happpen for YOU to FEEL confidence...
2 ways to get CONFIDENCE is changing your physiology...
Do this exercise and i promise you'll feel confident...

Stand the way you'd be standing if you were Unstobabbly confident! Breath as though you have UNLIMITED POWER. Make Gestures that what you're gonna say is gonna be EFFECTIVE. use the TONE OF VOICe that has UNSTOPABBLE CONFIDENCE. FEEL the feelings and KNOW you're a Strong PERSON!... MOVE WITH CERTAINTY, Talk, and fEEL THE FEELINGS!!

Another way is changing your FOCUS!!!

Live by this belief: God Gave us all the materials and everything we NEED to BE SUCCESSFUL!! if you live by this belief, you'll know that even though something is NEW or HARD in the beginning God already GAVE everything you NEED...you JUSST need to HARNESS THE POWER TO ACT!!

~2 things i learned from Anthony Robbins
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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