You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Umm my studies indicate that the Grafenberg spot is a loose group of tissue, similar to the prostate gland. And although off topic, this will probably shed some light for many people who've experienced this, applying pressure to the g-spot presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder, which is why your partner may feel the need to urinate if she is stimulated in that region.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Actually, the G-spot is just hitting the ****oris from a different angle. The **** is actually about 3-4 inches long inside of the woman. One of the best ways to stimulate a woman is by focusing on both spots at the same time.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Where would this post have to be for it to be in the right place?Originally posted by TDOT
Mr. d'Anconia, thank you for your brilliant way of answering his
question and at the same time making a legitimate tip out of it so the mods don't have to bother with moving his ill-placed post.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.