G/F Defying your requests?

[alphaace]

Ok, my girlfriend posts these little surveys on myspace a couple times a week and the last two have really gotten under my skin. There is this guy that keeps texting my g/f when he gets drunk saying **** like "will you be my baby" or something like "i wish you were in the shower with me right now so we could ****" or usually something along those lines. She showed me the text messages but refuses to let me tell this guy to **** off. I talked to her about it and told her I didnt really want her talking to this guy. Right now we are away from eachother because she moved back home (we are in college, she moved 4 1/2 hours away for the rest of the semester) because she got mono and a death in the family. So the other night on a AIM webcame conversation he somehow got brough up and I told her I didnt want her talking to the guy and she reassured me that she hasnt talked to him since she moved back home (its been about 30 days and the guy only lives 1 hour from where she is currently staying). Buuuuuuuuuut.... Last night at at 3:57AM she posted a survey on myspace and a couple of the answers to the questions are bothering me.

(The same night/morning she posted we talked until around 1:30am)
At 3:57am the same night she answered the followed questions with these answers. And the guy before mention would me lewis (or atl)

If you married the last person you texted what would be your last name?
-lewis

What is one fact about the last person who called you?
- I'm talking to him on AIM

Last time you were on the phone?
- little while ago

What's for dinner?
- its almost 4 AM...let's talk breakfast
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Later that day she posted another survey and one of the questions/answers was the following.

Are you going to be home alone tonight?
no...I may not even be home period

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Ok, so what are you guys responce to this situation..... She is talking on the phone and AIM at 3:57am in the morning to the guy you asked her not to really talk to.


Edit. Also, she said goodnight to me at 1:37am this morning which is EXTREAMLY EARLY for her to be going to bed. She is a church going girl so maybe it has to do with her going to church in the morning, but im also thinking its because that last question/answer posted might have to do with it?

 

[Rex Man]

I don't understand what it is you want to know? Responses? Put the pieces together

1) She gives out her number on the internet

2) They send her explicit texts with no penalty

3) She banners online that she isn't going back home tonight

4) She lives 4 1/2 hours away

She's either fvcking him or she's fvcking him. But the truly sad part is she SHOWS you the texts and keeps talking to him as if you don't mean sh!t. (Which to her, you don't really) WWRMD? End the 'relationship'. Get some more females.

 

[slickaz]

i cant believe you're actually asking this question.

she's fvkn him..she wants you to know..and she wants the world to know.

you cant do sh!t, coz she openly denies talking to him but clearly..lol..

heres a question for you.

you mentioned she said at 3:57AM that she was talking to a guy...wether it be that guy or some other guy....i dunno alota guys that would be happy with their "gf" talking to another guy at that time...

dump, move on to next 4 females

 

[FirstInstinct]

Judge on what they DO, not SAY.

 

[KontrollerX]

There's nothing for us to say other than why are you still with this chick?

She's so obviously cheating on you and riding this other guy's c0ck its sickening.

And even if she didn't quite go that far with him she refuses to stop talking to him and is clearly getting emotional intimacy with him which can only lead to the physical considering how close in proximity she lives to this kid.

Your options now are either waiting for her to drop the inevitable breakup speech on you ending things on her terms or beating her to the punch and ending it first.

Another thing you could do though is decide to end it but branch swing to another chick before you leave her for good.

That way there is no dry spell for you.

Though admittedly doing this last scenario is risky because at this stage she could drop the breakup speech on you at anytime now.

 

[Dedication]

Credit goes to Warrior74,

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.

The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others. ~Author Unknown

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Man oh man.
Even if she's not cheating, this girl is a waste of time unless you're just in it for the sex.

Any girl who exhibits this type of behavior is completley unsuitable for any type of relationship (outside of FB.)

Not only does she straight up disrespect you, she does it in a manner that let's all of your friends and all of her friends know she's disrespecting you.

You either need to bounce or become completely emotionly detached. I recommend the former.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Seems like she thrives off male attention and since you are 4 and a half hours away someone else will be giving it to her.

 

[edu11]

she's probably one of those people who go to church so that they can get a guilt-free pass to do anything they like. "Fvck me now, i'll confess tomorrow".

RUN